Is it possible to love and hate a person at the same time?

@Fulltank (2882)
Philippines
November 16, 2009 9:52pm CST
As love and hate are two complex feelings, how you a person love and at the same time hate another person? The worst thing in the world is to hate a person who you loved. Is it possible to love and hate a person at the same time?
6 responses
@emtjody (37)
• United States
17 Nov 09
I think it's possible to love the person and hate some of the things they do. Maybe this person did something to you that hurt you deeply but you can't just walk away from this person because you get along so well. Maybe the person didn't mean to hurt you and there's really nothing they can do about it now.
• United States
8 Jan 10
I think you can love and hate a person at the same time. If there is a strong bond or a lot of years spent together and love for many years,the love isnt going anywhere. At the same time that person may have done such hurtful things that your hateful towards them. All at the same time. You may love the person but not in love..
• India
17 Nov 09
No, I don't think so. You may love a person and then hate him or other way round but feelings at the same time won't happen. I used to hate my gf in the beginning, but later I came to know more about her and my love with her became strong. And I believe having such a relationship will last long as you already know the or bad side of your partner and you're ready to accept it. But if its the other way round like you love someone first and then hate him/her, such hatred would be the worse one.
@shajerrl (309)
• China
17 Nov 09
yes, I believe it's possible to have this very complex feelings, and you know we are senior animals with complicated feeling as human beings...you love sb who have sth worthy for your love, one the contrary, I believe, at the same time, you hate this guy who surely will have sth worthy for your hate...thanks
@getbrowser (1708)
• China
17 Nov 09
love and hate - relationship with others is full of love and disagreements, which is a complex network relationship.
In my eyes, it is possible completely for us to love and hate a person at the same time. It is not enough to describe one with "good " or "bad". No one is born perfect, each person has his physical defect. So, sometimes, even if we have a good relationship with others, we may still feel boried for their actions or weakness. That is to say, our relationship with others is full of love and disagreements, which is a complex network relationship. So, we may really love one, but sometimes, they may make us losing our temper.
@borhan (1338)
• United States
17 Nov 09
Apparently difficult to act like that. But You can love certain quality of a person and at the same time you can hate some of his or her qualities also. It happens with our all known persons. Thank you.
• India
17 Nov 09
No, I don't think so. You may love a person and then hate him or other way round but feelings at the same time won't happen. I used to hate my gf in the beginning, but later I came to know more about her and my love with her became strong. And I believe having such a relationship will last long as you already know the or bad side of your partner and you're ready to accept it. But if its the other way round like you love someone first and then hate him/her, such hatred would be the worse one.