is it alright to forget all about her?

American Samoa
November 17, 2009 6:56am CST
like, I've been with her since that time, but all she does is hurting me, like, when I talk to her, she's not even listening at me. And when i call her, she'll never look back. it's like being stupid in love, like she does not even feels that i am here on her side. I have her pictures, deletable, i have her phone number, deletable, i have the video that i have made for her, also deletable. but, i still have the memories with her, her smile, her face, her presence. What would be the best thing aside from time to forget her? It's easy to fall in love with someone but very hard to forget
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@kashers (649)
• Jamaica
18 Nov 09
listen i am a true lover of women,i love the idea of been in real love maybe a bit of vibe is happening for a moment and she needs a little space,we all need space in relationship to keep the vibe flowing i don't know howlong your relationship as been happening and how it was when it just started,but for me i observe the one i am going to get invovled with first before i get invovled i am not led by emotions it is all observance for me so if we are talking for a month or six and i have seen enough to make a decision if i should continue,then thats it but i never get invovled like that so i never get hurti just replace if i don't see what i am looking for,so in your case i couldn't tell u what to do but if u know for sure whom u r invovled with then any choice u make then thats it for u then
• American Samoa
18 Nov 09
but how about if that kind of "space" will grow wider? eventually, we'll forget or she'll forget some things that happen, hat would be sad on my part. Thank you for the response :) every thing is a little complicated with love heheh :) cheers!
@kashers (649)
• Jamaica
18 Nov 09
as long as the love u both have is built upon truth u both will never grow apart from eachother and u will never forget and so will she because truth ties u both together
@happynin (87)
• United States
17 Nov 09
well, if you see the sign that girl doesn't love you or i may say have no interest to accept your love. well i think you deserve someone who can appreciate and openly accept you. love sometimes is very cruel and unfair.. but i think you have to move on and set her free. i know you cant run away from love, but remember the only way to deal with it is accept and move on. my advice i know its easy for me to say.. love will come you don't need to find it. i still believe in soul mates. be happy =)
• American Samoa
18 Nov 09
love sometimes is very cruel and unfair! that is totally true! that'll just give us heartaches hehehe. that made me realize again :) thanks for the response!
• United States
20 Nov 09
we love and we get hurt.. the more hurtful it its the more stronger you become.. you just have to learn and love again.. thanks. =) love and be loved.
@rg0205 (2636)
• Hong Kong
18 Nov 09
Sorry if I'm being so blunt. It's okay to forget about her because evidently, she's already forgotten about you. I know it's hard to move on but you can't keep chasing after someone that doesn't want to be with you. You can have memories and eventually, when you get over her, even if you have those memories, they will no longer have significant meaning to you. It's not about having the memories per se, it's about getting over her. I have memories of my ex in my head but I feel nothing when I remember. That's because I'm already over and done with him.
• American Samoa
18 Nov 09
like to pass through all the trials? hmmm thank you for making me realize that :)
@Godmother (476)
• Indonesia
17 Nov 09
I don't think you can ever forget someone you really loved, even though the other person didn't love you too. But what you could do is stop reminding yourself of her. Everything come and goes. Just tell yourself that your hurting feeling will go too. like all the other disappointments of your life. Soon she will be just a sweet memory, and one day you will see each other again as just friends, and it is better that way. Be around lots of people, and focus on a new hobby. That will help. Oh yes, and don't put up her pictures anywhere anymore, just put them in a memory box. Your true love might just be around the corner.
• American Samoa
18 Nov 09
but what if in your "forgetting about her" state, you'll see her more often? will it be that easy? whoa that's a very rocky road i'm gonna cross hehe. I like the part where she will soon be a sweet memory, it's like some in the movies hehe. and putting up her pictures on a box? hehe~ how nostalgic would it be! thank you very much for the response, it helped me also :)
• China
18 Nov 09
hi,uchihaseymour! I nearlly can hear the sounds of your heart breaking. why people hurt badly and just cannot move on? It's said that the best way to forget someone is to fall in love with another one. I believe it makes sense. Of course it is your feelings and I don't want to gossip. have a nice day!
• American Samoa
18 Nov 09
that was quick response but has a meaning! fall in love with somebody else? like a new chapter on a book? hmmmmm, if, and only it would happen, that would be the best! hehe.
@shosum (24)
17 Nov 09
like, i have been with her in 10 years , she love me alot i dont know why she love me ........i think she loves my eyes and my attitude that i meet people and her family
• American Samoa
18 Nov 09
like no true love? feelings?
@djoyce71 (2511)
• Philippines
17 Nov 09
It's really hard to forget someone whom you love the most. It's like a permanent tattoo, it will stay forever not unless you make a move to remove it. Removing the tattoo is very painful, but you have to resist the pain to erase it. Ask yourself how you dealt with her, maybe there was something in the way you handled the relationship that she did not like. You can talk to her face to face to know the real score. Let her talk her heart out. Sometimes, what we think is different from what is the truth. Whatever she says you should accept and learn the art of letting go.
• American Samoa
18 Nov 09
awww that touches me (T_T), true, it's like a permanent tattoo in my heart, it's like, when you're trying to erase it and rub it, each collision will give you more pain. ouch. and i should learn that art of letting go to make it all easier, even if it's hard, no matter what. :) thank you very much
@yogeshdhusa (2236)
• India
17 Nov 09
hi, why you think on this as she dont care for you and your love.. first she dont love you other wise she should have shown some respect anf care/feeling. And more over she has lost a true love not you. let it go. be a friend. also stop giving importance to her because girls are very *** when u dont show any caring they will come to you to find out what's wrong.. if she come then its good- if she doesnt then think she dont love you..
• American Samoa
18 Nov 09
im kinda wondering myself on the "girls are very ****" that gives me an incomplete answer but thanks anyway for i have realized one thing, be a friend :) cheers!