Have you cheated on your partner?

@happy2512 (1266)
Philippines
November 17, 2009 8:08pm CST
Have you ever been loyal to your partner? Have had and affair with someone else? What made you do that? Is your partner absence for a long period of time made you do that?
7 responses
@IceTroll (77)
• Philippines
19 Nov 09
Yes on my ex, but right now i have not cheated yet for some reason i cant do it. Even if i could i can't there were a lot of times that i wanted to cheat but then i can't maybe its because im afraid of karma. Id rather let go of my partner instead of cheating on her. I don't want to hurt anybody anymore.
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@happy2512 (1266)
• Philippines
19 Nov 09
That's the idea at least you've learned that word "karma". Thanks anyway.
• United States
18 Nov 09
I am loyal to my husband, Though he has not been to me. When you cheat you are runing the trust you have in your realtionship.Sometimes you can work through the problems and rebuild the broken trust.I dont believe in cheating.
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@happy2512 (1266)
• Philippines
19 Nov 09
You are definitely right about it its never an excuse to have an affair because your husband is not loyal on you. Keep it up.
• Philippines
18 Nov 09
ever loyal, never cheated and never planned to
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@happy2512 (1266)
• Philippines
19 Nov 09
You must be a very good person!Thanks for your sharing.
@BrittneeD (261)
• United States
18 Nov 09
I did just make out with someone else when I was with a partner not the one im with now he did forgive me and we continued do date for several months.
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@happy2512 (1266)
• Philippines
18 Nov 09
You are lucky to have a partner who is forgiving & who understands you. I presume you learned your lesson well. Thank you for your time in commenting
@vijayanths (7878)
• India
18 Nov 09
So far, no. I wish I had somebody to help me to do that-hehehhe just kidding. I was very careful not to get into any outside relationship when I was young. Now I don't get into any temptations as I am more matured and cool.
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@happy2512 (1266)
• Philippines
18 Nov 09
Good for you that In your younger years you have a strong self control and you were able to maintain it until know your partner must be so lucky to have you. Thank you for your time.
• United States
20 Nov 09
I have to say that I did cheat on my ex. At that time in my life I was 19 or 20 pretty young and I just moved to Miami from a small town and it was a chance for me to explore and see what is out there. In the back of my mind I always kind of figured that my ex wasn't the one for me but we stayed together. Also, I am American and my ex was Latin and he barely knew English and I couldn't talk to him the way I wanted to so it always frustrated me. A co-worker ended up showing interest in me and I went ahead and I gave in. I am not saying it was the right thing to do but he never found out and it only happened once. I don't think I could have done it ongoing because that would just be wrong. For people who have the long distance relationships and wifes who have husbands in the military I have no clue how they survive. I want to have that type of love where I wouldn't even think about another person like that.
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@taogang (103)
• China
18 Nov 09
The sentence "have had and affair "must be"have had any affair",right?and the answer of me is "No",I am loyal to my fiancee..
• United States
18 Nov 09
Negatory commender i have never had an affair with someone else besides my partner. i really love her so i try to avoid any situation that might maybe put me in a place where me doing something whould make her upset then i never have to worry about it just kinda act like shes tehre all the time and you know you woudln't do anything that would upset her dun dun dun and no absenece has never made me want to have an affair
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@happy2512 (1266)
• Philippines
18 Nov 09
Thank you for your time in responding to my post. I salute you both for being loyal to your partner I thought "all" men are born polygamous.