Is there really a chance for reconciliation just for the sake of the "KIDS" ?

Philippines
November 18, 2009 2:31am CST
Do you think that is it possible that there will always be a chance of reuniting a separated wife and husband because their kids tell them so? That one of his kids aged 7 had cutting classes because he's so affected with the separation of his parents. Here are some things that made them separated: there will never be a day passes by without arguing, discussing things that can't be solved, shouting with each other, having a third party involved and the third party is afraid of losing husband. After several months here comes the husband bending on wife's knees to let him be given a chance to start things all over again. That he and the girl is already separated. Saying he can't live without his kids and he loves them so much. Please i need some advices...
3 responses
@alicia812 (646)
• Australia
18 Nov 09
Based on the situation mentioned, I think reconciliation between the estranged couple is only possible if they will put the past behind and move on with their lives. It is not fair for everyone involved, the wife, husband and the child, to reconcile just because the kid asks for it. If love is still there, then, there is no reason why they should not give it another try.
• Philippines
19 Nov 09
I knew that there was no love. The wife had fallen out of love for what he did. Her husband did it more than twice. But she's still thinking of their children. She doesn't want them to grow up with a broken family. Her mom had given her final thought "it's over", why should she welcome him again in his life despite everything happened to her?
@johndur (3052)
• Pasig, Philippines
9 Feb 13
its not bad to forgive someone as long as he will not do it again.and by time he do it once more then there will be no forgiveness after that.
@checapricorn (16061)
• United States
26 Nov 09
Yes for me but to the point of living together, it depends...It will be fine to forgive what he has done for the sake of the kids, for their happiness. But, before you will decide if you will live together, you have to evaluate yourself first...