Why is life filled with so many hypocrites?

United States
November 20, 2009 6:57pm CST
When the people you love the most, turn out to be the ones who say the worst things about you. It makes me wonder how they can claim to love you and on the other hand say such awful things. If this is some of their thoughts about you, why would they love something they have such a low opinion of? If they think so low of you, why are they with you? I know I love him so much I am willing to overlook the fact that he thinks so much less of me. I know I think so highly of him I dont expect them to be equal.
1 response
@hexeduser22 (5853)
• Philippines
21 Nov 09
Every person is different from one another. Nowadays there are less and less idealist people compare to the growing numbers of people choosing to be practical. There are two reasons why people see their love ones in such a way, low in your case. First, because they really don't love the person and they're just using them to survive or be practical. Second, it's a way a person tries to boost the self esteem of his/her partner in a negative way. Now to finally solve your case, determine where you are. Do you fit in the first or in the second reason above. Then it's up to you to decide on how to practically run your life