Facing your worst enemy

Philippines
November 23, 2009 8:22pm CST
I decided to post this discussion because I've been hurt by someone close to me and when I mean close I mean really close. . . How would you feel if your bestfriend would backstab you. . . I didnt know that my bestfriend could do that to me. . . And now I dont know if I would still consider him as my bestfriend. . please help me. . .T__T
6 responses
• Philippines
24 Nov 09
A friend who backstab is not worth the time. You don't even need to think of such a friend. It happens to many and you are not alone in this problem. There were lots of people who trusted a friend. Yet in the end, they showed they are traitors. In order to move on, you can just put your attention to other things. Keep yourself busy and socialize with other people. If your friend ask forgiveness, forgive him and learn a most important lesson. Don't trust too much.
• Philippines
24 Nov 09
thanks for the advice. . .
@mokkka (881)
• Bulgaria
20 Apr 10
The easiest way is to sit down and talk to your friend but I am almost sure that even you manage to make things rightfor the moment it won't last for long as you have once been diappointed by this person.
@hisoka147 (606)
• Philippines
24 Nov 09
That experience you have there is just a part of filtering out your true friends. There are actually traitors in this world where they only exist when they need something from you. Then after taking or sharing everything that they want from you, they simply leave you alone or do that back stabbing thing that you mentioned. Anyway, at least you've already identified him or her as not worthy of being a friend.
@cjfoust (614)
• United States
24 Nov 09
This has happened to me before, but more recently it happened with someone who I thought was closer than my best friend. To make a very long story short, a few months ago, there was a huge blow out between my aunt and I. I have always looked up to her, trusted her, thought I could depend on her. We were very very close. Since the huge blow out, we have not spoken. She has even turned my grandparents against me. I haven't talked to her or my grandparents in almost five months. The holidays are right around the corner and I'm expecting my first child in January. It would take way too long to explain everything that happened, but it can't every be fixed or changed. I hope I never have to see her again. I'm not sure what happened in your situation, but I certainly wish you luck!
@zausiu (610)
• China
24 Nov 09
Shame on your friend. Wouldn't your friend feel guilty. A friend go behind your back tring to hamstring you. That's a crime ~ I feel sorry to hear that. Before you make a friend, eat a bushel of salt with him.
@egawchua (34)
• Philippines
9 Dec 09
this situation really hurt... your bestfriend who is doing this thing can't be considered as a bestfriend or even as a friend.... if he would would apologize to you for what he have done.... accept it but don't even try to trust that person again because he may/might still do it again.