I love like i never loved before... what about you, how do you love?

Hi alexysabelle. I used to live on my own since the age of 16. To survive, I had to be strong and very independent woman. I learned to do things on my own terms. I learned how to find for solutions and solve my problems alone. When I fell in love, I found it hard to unlearn being aggressive, independent and self-centered. Suddenly, I have another person to share my life with and depend on. We had some issues during the early stage of our relationship as I would always do things or decide on something without consulting my partner. Suddenly, I felt like I was obliged to ask for his permission about anything. I don't like the feeling in the beginning. I felt like he was trying to control me or something. But that was almost seven years ago. We are happily married now. Little by little, I learned how to submit myself and share my life with him. Falling in love made me realize two things: 1. success and happiness could be enjoyed best when shared; and 2. sorrows and problems could be resolved better when you have your loved ones to help you with.

It's hard to describe the feeling of falling in love. Some scientist said it's chemical.. But I think only our heart can describe this feeling.