will you try to interpret when others misunderstand you

China
November 26, 2009 7:22pm CST
Sometimes you are misunderstood by someone,you don't want to argue with him,so you choose to keep silent?It goes without saying not everyone understand you and you needn't cry to the world.The ones who understand you won't misunderstand you while the ones who don't understand you won't listen to your explanation. So in the moment silence may be the best choice for interpreting.How do you think?
1 response
@doryvien (2293)
• United States
27 Nov 09
Hi Blesswei, Once I've sent my message across clearly, I would appreciate those who still would want to clarify and ask me to expound, but I won't bother explaining to those who won't listen anyway. Their views are their views, and no matter how extensively I discuss it, some would prefer to stick to their preconceived ideas. Under this circumstance, I prefer silence. Welcome to myLot!
• China
27 Nov 09
Thanks for your response so quickly.sometimes the misunderstanding happend bettween lovers or the best friends.I feel so depressed about why the closest guys for me don't understand me.It makes me in somber mood when it happend everytime.i don't know how to do .