I've been forgiven after many years of waiting
November 27, 2009 4:43am CST
We are not perfect and we are not saints, we made mistakes in our life, which I think is vital to our life development. We commit mistakes either by accident or intentional but whatever your reason is, we had hurt someone or somebody special in our life. When we made mistakes we tried to ask for forgiveness, for us to have a peace of mind. My sister and I had a terrible fight over phone, (she's on Las Vegas while I'm here in Philippines)She tried to accuse me of something that I didn't do, technically not the exact thing happened, though during our conversation I tried to say "SORRY" just to end the conversation peacefully, but she still rampantly saying bad stuff about me. We haven't seen each other for 3 years that time, (my point is? she doesn't care if I graduated at college.no congratulations or good luck. she doesn't even know what I've been through in life) Well then, that hurts my feeling and my being. We haven't talk for a year and I misses her a lot that time. I kept on sending her emails just to say hi and ask if she's okay but she didn't reply to any of that sorry emails. She went home last month and I was shocked because Im not actually informed about her going home. When she arrived at our house? She just said what happened to your nose it's very' big. (i had a pimple at the center of my nose that time) lol.. She's back she started throwing jokes on me.. I know deep inside she already forgave me. Before she left we had this heart to heart conversation and she said, I was just upset with you that time and I don't know how to say sorry to you too. That's a total relief in my part. I am proud to say. I am forgiven.
27 Nov 09
my friend~~i really envy you,you have a sister,although maybe you two always have fights lol~~but i think you are still a very important part of your sister's life. and she is too,right? Family ties are sacrosanct and,even in the midst of a bitter family feud,kin will ultimately always look out for kin. sometimes,we are shomewhat embarrassed to open our heart to others even our family members. my english is terrible,but i know you and your sister are much attached to each other.... God bless you^ ^take care~~~
27 Nov 09
Yeah I got your point shirleylol. we always had this fight since childhood but we make up after an hour or two. I just want things to be lighter for us whenever we had fight. but we're okay now. I promised her not to do things that could upset her.
• United States
28 Nov 09
I'm glad your sorry has a happy ending. It's hard to fight with a sibling, especially when you grow up together close in age. Hopefully this will make your bond stronger in the future. It's unfortunate that she missed your graduation, you will never be able to get the lost years back. Just make it a point to share each other's lives from now on. Good luck!