How often do you quarrel with you lover/husband?

November 27, 2009 10:05pm CST
i am married for almost 11 years now, but i never had a big fight with my husband. my man is a very good man, he is very patient (hehehehe), and i'll like to think that we both love each other that is why we last this long. How about you? how often do you quarrel with your lover/husband? and for what reason?
2 responses
@yan_blue8 (1438)
• Philippines
30 Nov 09
Hi Alexy! My partner and I rarely quarrel because of something. He used to understand me all the time and remained patient as what he is. That's good thing about our relationship. And I'm thankful for having him. The reason why we quarrel at times is because he misses me. That's all. When he feels like that, he would say "I hate you" then we quarrel because of what he said. But the thing is he just missed me and does not really mean that word. So, I stick to my mind that if he say something like this, I know he missed me already. So I better show up.
• Philippines
5 Feb 10
very sweet... take care. and take care of each other.
@arsalaum (57)
• Philippines
28 Nov 09
Hi Alex! Well, Before I often quarrel with my bf. We're actually living in the same house and I observed that even to the smallest thing that he did that I disagree, it will definitely become the source of the fight. Now, that we're separated (my bf is now working in another place) I realized that we wasted the time that we're together. I could have understand him more or maybe stretch a little bit of my patience. Now, Im just here alone thinking and imagining what could have happen if we didnt fight. We could have shared some nice good conversation and could have avoided hurting each other...c",) So always treasure the time that you're with your husband or lover. Or else you might just be left alone and wondering what could have been :(
• Philippines
4 Feb 10
i read somewhere that says, we can only realize the importance of a person or a thing once they are not near us. true indeed! anyway there are always lessons to be learned from our past to become better in the future and that includes relationships with people we care about deep in our hearts. good uck and take care..