How often do you quarrel with you lover/husband?

Hi Alexy! My partner and I rarely quarrel because of something. He used to understand me all the time and remained patient as what he is. That's good thing about our relationship. And I'm thankful for having him. The reason why we quarrel at times is because he misses me. That's all. When he feels like that, he would say "I hate you" then we quarrel because of what he said. But the thing is he just missed me and does not really mean that word. So, I stick to my mind that if he say something like this, I know he missed me already. So I better show up.

Hi Alex! Well, Before I often quarrel with my bf. We're actually living in the same house and I observed that even to the smallest thing that he did that I disagree, it will definitely become the source of the fight. Now, that we're separated (my bf is now working in another place) I realized that we wasted the time that we're together. I could have understand him more or maybe stretch a little bit of my patience. Now, Im just here alone thinking and imagining what could have happen if we didnt fight. We could have shared some nice good conversation and could have avoided hurting each other...c",) So always treasure the time that you're with your husband or lover. Or else you might just be left alone and wondering what could have been :(