My friend hurt me

Hi. bettydeng5. I am sorry that your friend has hurt you. I know how you are feeling to be hurt by a person that you consider to be a special person in your life. If I was you, I would talk to this same friend and tell her how her words that were unintentional has hurt you. I hope that she can understand how you are feeling. She should know. Don't hold in your pain any longer. Take care.

Ya i was also like a emotional fool in my early days..but now i have made myself stronger in this socail life ..i want you to give advice..Don't expect much from people ..and you will be happy!

Sometimes the truth hurts and there is no way around it. If a true friend tells us something for our own good that we really need to hear, then we have to accept their criticism or advice in the spirit it is given and respect and appreciate their honesty. Depending on how they are, our friends may not always be as tactful as we would like. But if we know they are telling us something because they love us and it really helps us, then we should thank them. We might also help them by telling them how to soften their words so they don't offend when all they want to do is help. After all, friendship is a give and take proposition. None of us is perfect, so we can certainly help each other. You showed great character by putting your feelings aside and examining what your friend told you objectively. You also saved a friendship.

people are not perfect, s that's the reason sometime people commits mistake.

I've been hurt many times by friends. Sometimes they really mean to hurt you -those people can't really be considered friends-, and sometimes they're just saying it for your own good, and because they love you. If your friend is trying to help you, even if she hurt you with her words, I'm glad you could solve it in the end.

yes i experience that situation but i always love my friends i keep on explaining and i always give patience to my friends ...because everyone have different behaviors and attitudes so what i did whenever my friends hurt me i just talk them and settle it out im good way...................

Hello. First of all, thank you for sharing about your experience. Sometimes, no matter how much we love our friends, there will be things that you may not control like the manner on how they tell you what you're supposed to do or not to do. They are imperfect as we all are. Some may tell you mildly, others may give it to you brusquely. But you have control on how you react towards the criticism, intentional or unintentional. It is also you who decides on how you want your friend to tell it to you. You may have to tell him or her that "the critique was highly appreciated and that you are concerned with me, but how I wish you could have told me in a different manner." If he or she was really your friend, then she would also accept the critique given as well. That's all I have to say!

In the end friends are people just like you are. Of course once and a while something is going to hurt. That's part of being human. And, while some may not say it, everyone has been hurt intenional.... or not. At least to me it sounds like you've worked things out.