What husband/wife says is different from what he/she do.
November 30, 2009 3:01am CST
this is often one of the causes of the differences occurred between the husbands and wives. In some instances, husband or wife tend to tell the other and do the different thing. I got this sentiment form a friend who confided in me about her husband. It’s not that she’s being wary about her husband but she noticed that he’s been doing that often. Specifically when she told her that he had to attend a party and only to find out that he was just at the net café for the whole time. I just laughed at it. do you have the same experience with her?
2 Dec 09
you have a point there.Honesty is vital to making effective changes and identifying who you really are and what you really want. When you lie about who you are or what you really believe, you reinforce the idea that you need to pretend to be someone else or that you are not fundamentally "good enough". Worse you undermine virtually every other key principle for self improvement because they are based on the premise that you have identified your authentic self and your goals.