Do you have freedom to wear cloths the way you want

India
November 30, 2009 5:58am CST
Hi, I dont know this question is correct or not. This thing came in my mind because sometimes my wife ask me, should i wear skirt, should i wear jeans. From my side i have given freedom to her to wear cloths way she like. But same time i know that she will never mis-use this freedom. So, especially for ladies,do you have freedom to wear cloths way you want.
3 responses
@xfahctor (14130)
• Lancaster, New Hampshire
30 Nov 09
I could not imagine telling my girlfriend that I "gave her permission" to wear something. this would be met with hysterical laughter on her part and she would wear something outragious just to spite me, that is if she din't just out right cold konk me in the jaw for my arrogence. It is something I would not ever even concieve of telling her. What do you mean you have given her the freedom to wear what she wants? Your her husband, not her master. I wasn't aware she would require your permission or blessing to wear what she wanted. Maybe I am just reading you wrong, but it seems as though you feel this was something that was yours to give. Freedom is a birthright, we are not born slaves or subserviant to another humnan being, especialy our spouses. If I have read you entirely wrong then I sincerely apologize, it may well be that things just didn't translate well. It may well be that she just values your opinion and is seeking it, rather than "permission".
• India
1 Dec 09
Hi, i think my sentence"gave her permission" is not correct and not mean it. Just i want to say she ask my opinion and respect it. my english is not that much good. and i apologize for wrong sentence. Thanks, have a nice day.
@xfahctor (14130)
• Lancaster, New Hampshire
1 Dec 09
No apology nessesary. I should have thought about the language differences we encouter here....my bad....my apology. My girlfriend will ocaisionaly ask me about something she wants to wear, or will try a few things on and ask what I think of it, or what I think looks better. lol, I usualy just tell her "I'm a guy, what do I know?" To which she usualy raises an eyebrow and I end up just picking something randomly she would normaly wear anyways, it's an easy out.
@borhan (1345)
• United States
30 Nov 09
I dont have much freedom in wearing clothes. My office has a specific uniform and the office time takes almost the whole day. I am somehow fat, so even i desire, i dont wear beautiful t shirts. Only at my home i enjoy the freedom of wearing clothes. Thank you.
30 Nov 09
Maybe. Sometimes, I feel that I don't have the freedom. Maybe, it's because I am not so comfortable with my body. I am not that fat but maybe the pressure from society makes me uncomfortable of wearing some clothes I really like.