How do friendship break?

Philippines
November 30, 2009 9:17am CST
When separated for a short or long time, both friends will think the other is busy and will not contact thinking it may be disturbing. As time passes by, both will think "let the other contact". After that, each will think, "why should I contact first?". Here, friendship is most probably be converted to anger or hate. Finally, without contact the memory becomes weak. Until, they forget each other. What about you? What's your view about friendship breaking-up?
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• Philippines
30 Nov 09
There are lots of reasons why a lot of friendship broke up first: 1. betrayal 2. no time for friends 3. found new friends 4. distance
• Philippines
30 Nov 09
oh yes... i have known of people who lost friends because of betrayal
@babshish (1390)
• India
30 Nov 09
The one of the major reason in my view is mis-understaning. Whenever there is mis-understanding , it becomes very difficult to get that clear out. So atleast from our side we should see what went wrong and was there anything by mistake you have done which might have caused that mis-understanding, if not, then give some time to other friend , sooner or later he would understand. If the other person is not understaning or trying to see from your point of view, its better to leave that else the relationship may get worse. Distances should not matter within friendship, as there are many ways available to be in touch even if it is after a long interval. It is possible that because of the busy schedule we are unable to get in touch, but we should take out time to be in touch with friends whenever possilbe. So from my view, mis-understaning is the biggest reason.
• Philippines
30 Nov 09
Friendships break from a lot of reasons. Here are some reasons that I can think of: 1)Betrayal of trusts in situations where secrets sworn in secrecy were broadcasted to every person in every nook and cranny. 2)Another would be financial, when your friend forgets to pay his or her debts to you when he or she borrowed money from you. 3) The friend decides to drop you like a bad habit and moves over to another person better than you. 4) When you fought and called each other names only ghosts can bear to hear, and reconciliation is not possible 5) Friend is nice in front of you, but talks to you at the back These are what I can think of so far.
@Craicha (801)
30 Nov 09
for me if you lost connection with your friends so thats endup with a friendship...
• Philippines
30 Nov 09
Hi. I think friendship break-ups happen when the parties involved have allowed the issues of time, money, distance and misunderstandings to get in the way.