a gift for a person who don't love me
By moment
@moment (60)
China
December 2, 2009 3:51am CST
i have been sad for half a year, since i was denied by the boy i love. i thought i needn't take further action to get his love, if what i want is a person who have feeling to me. there's a saying that not loving you is the only drawback of the perfect guy. nevertheless, i am still broken-hearted. i care about him and want to share every good things. being driven by this desire, i bought a gift for him. is it ok? am wrong or right? i can asure that i felt happy after doing that. but i clealy know i still have no hope. what do you think? have you done such sort of thing before?
3 responses
@natnickeep (2336)
• United States
2 Dec 09
It's ok to buy this person a gift or give them one. But just don't get your hopes up. False hopes are no fun. I suggest you quit wasting your time on him and find someone to love you. Or better yet just learn to love yourself. People always want what they can't have. So if you turn away and quit paying interest to him maybe he would be more interested in you.
@natnickeep (2336)
• United States
2 Dec 09
Well try to find something or someone to replace it. You can't change the way a person feels by keeping on pushing, you might just push them away. Try just staying away and that person might miss you, if not then he isn't the one.
@Norah0804 (165)
• China
2 Dec 09
I quite understand the way you feel, since i have experienced such things like you. But after a serious thought, i decided to give up and stay away from him.
If you want to draw his attention, a gift is not enough, i guess you shall show him your true feeling, if he still can't accept you, just think about whether to go on or not.
@Alicesnow (78)
• China
2 Dec 09
I support you .when I was in high middle shcool,I have ever had a crush on a boy,in that time ,can say ,he is my spiritual pillar,hahahaha.Although he knew me .As long as I saw him,I would be very happy.But I have no courage to confession,I'm afraid of being refused.I admire your courage...fighting ...
I wish you ,good luck.my friend.
