why we must get troble in our live.

Indonesia
December 4, 2009 2:05am CST
some say life is beautiful. but the fact that i see life is more diffucult than pleased. not only me, but my friend was also experiencing that. why?
5 responses
• United States
5 Dec 09
I think that life is beautiful, it just depends on how you see it. It's what you take out of the events that happen in your life that changes and influences your outlook on life overall. If you focus on the negativity, then of course you will think that life is difficult and troublesome. But if you focus on the positives and all the good things in life, then you will see life in a better way. It just depends on how you look at it.
• Indonesia
6 Dec 09
thanks for the comment. may i asked you somethig? do you ever got trouble? how many times in a month? and what do you do ?
• United States
6 Dec 09
Yes, I do get in trouble, but I can't really say how many times per month because sometimes I do get in trouble but sometimes I don't, so it varies.
@raynejasper (2322)
• Philippines
4 Dec 09
..hi seberoteb.. life is beautiful indeed.. however, we are affected by our own decisions and choices that we made.. if you analyze deeper, you will realize that what you are experiencing right now is a result or consequence of your own decision or choice.. according to the law of attraction, if we think negatively about life, then definitely, we are attracting negative things in our life.. but if we focus on the bright side of life and start having a positive thought, positive feedback will result.. try this.. first thing in the morning upon waking up, try to smile and say life is beautiful or I am happy.. even with the things you are experiencing right now, try to smile and hope for the best.. remember that everything has an ending.. it may not be today but it may end tomorrow.. believe me, our own choice determines what we want in life.. if we chose to be happy then we will be happy.. hut if we chose to always cry and continue to think that life is difficult, then life will really become difficult.. try this once and find out for yourself the result of being positive and being happy despite life's difficulties..
• Indonesia
4 Dec 09
thanks for your respond. pls tell me, on the month, how many trouble you get? and what do you do ?
• Philippines
6 Dec 09
..how many?.. I think everyday we are met with different situations that could lead us into trouble depending on how we handle things.. for now, I have had a very big trouble which until now, i'm facing it but I'm very positive that I will be able to overcome this.. I don't worry so much.. I just hope for the best.. I don't want to be depressed or to be affected greatly because I can ruin my life if I do drastic moves or decisions..
• India
4 Dec 09
It is a point of view.Some think life is beautiful in spite of the problems they face.They overcome them with a smile.Others find it intolerable and cannot have peace of mind in the situation they are in.Life is certainly not a bed of roses for most people.They have to fight hard to achieve whatever they want to, but getting bogged down and depressed does not help, one has to pull himself together and fight on.
@MJAL08 (275)
4 Dec 09
well pain make us strong.. Well, i always look at it that way. I don't call problems problems but instead i call it challenges..Kinda like an obstacle course and when i make it through, i love the feeling of a good work done. Life is no walk in a beautiful meadow full of daffodils and roses. Also, no one said it would be easy of fair. Because to start with it was never fair but it doesn't mean it would always be that way. Obstacles are quite normal, no one can runaway from them but it doesn't mean you should give up.
• Indonesia
4 Dec 09
thanks for the advice. are you from indonesia? do you always get trouble too? what do you do to handle that?
@chriszh22 (432)
• China
4 Dec 09
Oh I should say life is hard my friend, we just make fun from the hardlife. The only way to have no trouble at all is to see the god, just kidding. As long as you still live in this world, there'll be troubles. But don't be so negative, like have different weathers, sunny, rainny, cloudy, we could have different time and mood during our life time. Just keep smile for any trouble you would meet, cause nobody could escape and you're not alone in this world. What we Can do is just to make it better and happier as much as possible. : )