True love happens once in a lifetime.... Is It So???
December 11, 2009 5:49am CST
People say and even movies show us that true love happens just once in a lifetime... and if you find love more than once, thats not true love... i find it very confusing as to which one of mine is true love and which one is not... because i had the same kind of feeling for each of my girlfriends... when i am with a certain girl i think yes she is the one for me... and then when i move on for the next one, same feeling comes for her too... what do you say??? did you feel the same way or you are one of those rare breed who found their true love once... share your experiences...
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12 Dec 09
I thought I knew about true love, even as a youngster, I thought I knew. But it seems the further I go in life the more I find out I don't know about true love. I'm 58 yrs old now, been married 27 years, and still I find I don't know much about true love. Must be a "guy" thing. It has something to do with our vision. The way we see things and the way we want other people to see us. But I do know this much, if its true love, there will be no doubt in your mind. There's no moving on to the next girl, there'll be no other "girls" in your mind. Sorting this stuff out can be confusing and frustrating. But know your heart and remember, in some cases thinking is highly overrated.
13 Dec 09
May be you are true about the guy thing... even i have notices this thing mostly in guys only... girls tend to be more more loyal and in most cases are a one man woman... but in my case i am 27 and i think i am still too young to understand what true love is...
19 Dec 09
IT depends on the person how he view and define love for himself. SOme happens to find true love for once and lost even the one he loved. then tried to open again his heart for another love, still, he did find the same happiness. IT is a matter of your limitations and what you can do for love to attain the kind of happiness you want and be considered as true love. It is in one's perceptions and own views. If a person is worth loving for many reasons, then possibly all the person he got intimated with in a relationship will also return the kind of love given by him.
22 Dec 09
you are absolutely right dear... it depends on an individual how he copes with various love of his life and how he manages to forget his past and go ahead with his present life... but it takes a hell lot of time to forget someone you loved very much... and also if you are unlucky in love more than once, you start disbelieving in love... and then you change your perspective towards love...