happy in the dream, but more sad in the day

@moment (60)
China
December 11, 2009 6:39am CST
last night, i have a happy dream. i deamed about the guy finally understand me and accept me. i could even remember the warmth from his hand. i felt so happy that i didn't want to stop dreaming.but when i opened my eyes,i was throwed back to the brutal reality. i felt even sadder. if dream has a function of abreaction,what will the sharp contrast to the day cause to us?
3 responses
@honey023 (57)
• Philippines
11 Dec 09
Hi good day!! Let me share this to you!!! When a person is asleep, his/her body is very relaxed that comes to a point that even the brain forgets to breath and to pump heart!!! For us to continue breathing our brain makes a way to makes us awake... Our brain interpret those things which we loves the most by the use of our dreams.. This is the only way for us to move then our body to continue breathing!!! Maybe you are very disappointed with your dreams.. But there is no reason that we should believe on these dreams for the fact that these are only dreams.. Maybe this not already the time, and someday you will find that perfect guy..Just do not lose hope!! Good night!
@moment (60)
• China
11 Dec 09
thanks so much! did you mean i had that dream when i am lacking oxygen?
• Philippines
24 Dec 09
yUp!! tHat's correct! sO now you Understand why people had dreams.. Just think of good things before you asleep to avoid having nightmares.
• Malaysia
11 Dec 09
i'm sorry if u felt sad after waking up from your bed having to face the brutality of reality,, but lets face it, for one happy dream y do u have to even felt "sad"? usually from my observation, the dream only shows that you are a very lonely person whereas you should not be lonely because there is so many wonderful things can be done to make your life more cheerful & meaningful am i right to say that? you might find that i am sound a bit harsh as i am new here, but still y sitting all day thinking about something that only will hurt you even more? so, the solution is to WAIT for THE PRINCE CHARMING to come & at the same time ENJOY YOUR LIFE,,!!love your live your life,,!!
@moment (60)
• China
12 Dec 09
do you think everyone can finally wait for the prince charming?
• India
11 Dec 09
I think dream is what we think about ourselves and what we believe but sometimes reallity is like horour and cruel to us don't u think!!!!!!
@moment (60)
• China
11 Dec 09
yeah,i agree with you. but if the dream is better than the reality,after we come back, we will feel so much disappointed.