Good Relationship

India
December 12, 2009 1:06am CST
When we start a relationship do we always start with a frame of mind that it will be permanent or do we think of short-term relationships?
6 responses
@allknowing (71069)
• India
12 Dec 09
Relationship - A good relationsohip sees no colour
No one plans a relationship as it just happens and as one goes along it either snaps midway or continues into an everlasting one. That which connects a relationship hines on several factors none of them can be planned or within our control. It just binds sometimes without even knowing it has happened!
@allknowing (71069)
• India
12 Dec 09
Please read it as hinges and not hines. Thank you.
@Genericbe (1378)
• Philippines
12 Dec 09
Everyone who are in a relationship aspire to have a permanent one. But, in the process of being there, there are things that changes, both have many differences according to its likes and dislikes.. Thinking of having a permanent relationship will suit if you want to settle down and be married to that person..This is the turning point in one's life. I guess having a short term relationship is a matter of choice preferences and believes of a person in his response and what he can participate on the said relationship. I guess every short term relationship either will have a hired time starting a new relationship again or find it easy to change partners ahead. It is still a matter of preferences by own choice and beliefs.
@takutaku (102)
• Zimbabwe
12 Dec 09
ohh of course. When I met my current girlfriend, I had this thing in mind, I want someone who I can be friends with even when we are old. Someone who will make a wonderful companion. A wonderfull mother and partner as well. You have to have these visions. You dont just enter a relationship just like that!
• Philippines
12 Dec 09
hello... I am into a relationship right now. We have this chemistry, I guess =), that makes us last this long. Before I entered into it, I considered a long term one. If you are in a relationship, you will spend time together, be with each others family and friends. You will be used to being with other's company like attending events, shopping, doing the groceries and several others. You will be doing his favorite stuff which will eventually be your favorite as well. Your friends will be his an his friends will be your friends, too. It is as if you are already establishing a foundation which will last for years. That is why thinking of only short term relationship will only be a waste of time, effort and emotional investment.
• Philippines
12 Dec 09
in starting a good relationship,it is important that there is connection between 2 persons.there is no point in starting a relationship when you aren't in good terms with the other person.there should be respect,understanding,acceptance,and love.interests doesn't really matter.even clashing interests can create a harmonious relationship.
@Hazelrose (2185)
• Philippines
12 Dec 09
Hi meetvivek,Every one of us really wants to have a good relationships.Having a good relationship is not easy .we must consider each other feelings,we must be very understanding and of course being loyal and honest .To have a good relationship, We really needs the help of our God Almighty in heaven,so that it will fine smooth and the relationships will last.Thanks,Have a nice Day!