Could you forgive your lover for cheating?

United States
December 14, 2009 2:39pm CST
Season greetings to all mylotters! Okay I have something on my mind! Last night when I was talking to my friend she asked me a question that I really wasn't sure how to answer. The question was could I forgive my man for cheating?
12 responses
• United States
18 Dec 09
I would never forgive somebody for cheating on me. I think that is the biggest form of betrayal. Cheating and any type of abuse are the signs when to move on from a relationship.
@lindiebiz (1013)
• Canada
16 Dec 09
For me, if my boyfriend cheats on me, I will leave him. A man that loves you will not easily cheat on you. I could forgive him but the relationship can never lead to anything serious because if we get married, he will cheat.
• Philippines
16 Dec 09
it really depends on the situation. if your lover cheated on you more than enough and that is too much. you can forgive but I think never forgets.
@rene12 (797)
• Philippines
15 Dec 09
If you love her/him you should forgive but never when it comes to second time he/she does it
• India
15 Dec 09
It is already happen with me dear before with my lover,,,she cheats me and even i forgive her but never make relation again with her....Becoz i believe if someone can break your trust what ever he can do to overcome it cannot happen
@bhav27 (443)
• India
15 Dec 09
Well really a hard question , i don't really think so that i can ever forgive my man for cheating me by heart , may be just to relax him i will say that i forgive you but not from my heart because he break my trust and my faith on him , well i know my baby will not do this and yeah if the person has cheated he should not given a chance because he himself choiced to cheat so i will say ok i forgive you and that's all byye and take care as our relation ends up here.
@maria1081 (1252)
• Philippines
15 Dec 09
Some things in life are easier to say than doing it. If I were in your friend's shoes, I would not forgive my boyfriend for cheating. i would let him go and set him free. But if my man is my husband, I would give him another chance because marriage is sacred for me and I would do everything I could to make it work. But if my everything wasnt good enough I have no more option but to let go of something that could never be mine forever.
• Philippines
15 Dec 09
well, why cant we forgive if even GOD can forgive them? Definitely i can forgive my partner but i cannot forget the pain inside she made for me..it would be forgivable but its very unforgettable.
@kail2001 (250)
• India
14 Dec 09
I could forgive my partner. I would just have some questions that needed to be answered. I would need to know where we were and how we stood. I believe communication is key, and I would want to see if that could have been an issue that caused the indiscretion.
@kail2001 (250)
• India
14 Dec 09
I could forgive my partner. I would just have some questions that needed to be answered. I would need to know where we were and how we stood. I believe communication is key, and I would want to see if that could have been an issue that caused the indiscretion.
@kail2001 (250)
• India
14 Dec 09
I could forgive my partner. I would just have some questions that needed to be answered. I would need to know where we were and how we stood. I believe communication is key, and I would want to see if that could have been an issue that caused the indiscretion.
@weasel81 (2502)
• Australia
14 Dec 09
hard one, depends on what type of person you are. we got word last night from a good friend his wife has been having an affair on him, sounds like she's the one moving out. sometimes it can make the relationship stronger, others that's the end of it. it takes two to tango and well.