Green-Eyed Monster
By arystine
@arystine (1273)
Philippines
December 16, 2009 4:17am CST
Are you a naturally jealous person? Or had the occasional jealous urge? Honestly speaking, am a little bit of a green eyed monster when am in a relationship. But I would like to classify it as "healthy" jealousy, and not abnormal paranoia. I can't help myself if I see other girls flirting shamelessly with the object of my affection (LOL).
3 responses
@Kokolomokmok (57)
• Philippines
21 Dec 09
In a world where everybody likes everybody, you just can't help but to get jealous every time other people flirts with your partner. In the first place, why would these carcasses flirt if your partner doesn't allow them?
@arystine (1273)
• Philippines
21 Dec 09
That's why the green-eyed monster lives in me (LOL). Actually, most of us girls ask the same thing: why get mad with the other women when it is your man whom you should be really, really mad with? I don't know the exact answer. Maybe it's like guarding your territory? (LOL)
@arystine (1273)
• Philippines
21 Dec 09
Well, am not actually experiencing this right now haha I just posted this discussion under the category "Been in Love" -- meaning I've exprienced this way, waaaay before. And just like your advice, I dropped the guy that am talking about in the discussion. It's not a dilemma for me, actually. I just want to see if my feelings are shared by others, whether my jealous attacks are still normal. :-)
@Kokolomokmok (57)
• Philippines
21 Dec 09
Exactly. Relationship ends when one ceases to be committed. If your man wants to enjoy the best of many worlds, there's no reason for you to stick with him. Have some pride. Drop him down! He's not worth your time. I know the hardest part of love is letting go, but you have to let him go. It may seem easier said than done, but we have to exert great efforts to take the first step to move on. No more pulling of sleeves this time. You have to die to live again. After all, you can always find a better person who can be worthy of your love and sweet surrender. And during this time, PRAYER is the most powerful weapon one could ever have. God is closer to those who are broken hearted. Trust me. I'm speaking from experience. :-)
@DenverLC (1143)
• Philippines
16 Dec 09
Well dear you have it all the brain and the looks, nothing to get jealous about.
However In a healthy relationship it pays good to express and let your partner know that you are indeed feeling so, it will sometimes strenghten your relationship, atleast you care about him and you just wanted that special someone to stay away from tempting charms. Presumption and precaution are worth working good when not excessive.
