Help....I am gonna miss someone to death. How can I deal with it?

Hey hiddenwing! You aren't giving us much information to go on! Is this friend of yours leaving for good to stay in NY? Is he someone who is MORE than just a friend? Is he going to be going back to where you live or is this a final trip and he is staying in NY? You can always visit! I live in NYS and it is a beautiful and friendly place to visit! It is very cold right now and we are expecting a possibly large snowstorm, but that is normal for this time of year! I know that it hurts when someone you truly care about leaves so I will not make light of it! Did you tell him how much you cared about him before he left? Maybe you should have or maybe you still should!

human beings have a inherent capacity to heal self from such emotional hurt.and time is the biggest healer.give yourself time by telling yourself that this is not the end of the world.you can always find him if you wish to ,but you don't want it now. that would pacify your immediate anxiety.gradually the hurt gets less and less .till you can deal with it rationally.all the best