December 19, 2009 4:20am CST
Do we ever learn from our mistakes or always regret things we did and things which we could not do?
16 Jan 10
making a mistake runs through a cycle.once we are humble enough to accept we are mistaken,we regret it.we beat ourselves up.once we are done beating ourselves up,we humbly accept that there's nothing we can do about it.we think about the lessons learned and what should be done next time.once we are done thinking about that mistake,we already move forward with our own lives and remember the lessons learned.
23 Dec 09
I'm the type of person who really learns from my mistakes except when it comes to relationship with guys. It seems as if I keep repeating the same mistakes when I am in love. I keep falling for the wrong guys, becoming temporarily blind with the flaws and lies, and demanding when it comes to spending time. I can say that experience does not make me wiser. I admit that I tend to be weak when I fell head over heels in love. But I can say that when I've had enough, I move on ASAP. I'm not the one who dwells in the past and becomes a crazed ex-lover. LOL
• United States
22 Dec 09
I think it depends on the person. I used to always regret the mistakes I made and now that I realize doing this is not going to get me anywhere, I have been trying to change the way I think, so that I can learn from my mistake. I think every person will have some regret from mistakes they have made but just as long as they also learned from those mistakes and they changed so they can avoide a similar mistake in the future, they will be ok.