Is there ONE person out there made "JUST FOR ME/US"?

@Boyetski (986)
Philippines
December 22, 2009 2:19am CST
This predicament is neither a dream and worry at the same time... We ask our selves is the person I met really made for me? Is she the one in my dreams? Cause sometimes we dream of someone we love so dearly and yet have no face or we cant recognize. We worry if we really met the person for us? Are you sure he/she is the one for you?
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@Genericbe (1376)
• Philippines
24 Dec 09
I think not only one but many person are made for us and not just for us. I see that a person can be made just for you granted that this person tend to be the best among other prospected persons for you and considered as special person. This saying is a reservation for oneself that there will be someone made just for you. In this matter I can agree that there is One special person just made for us. That person whom you considered the best and most special for you, is the only ONE you can say made just for you. Example are those different women falling for a man, they cannot say all of them made for him, it is because all of these women wanted to be with him and do all things pleasing for the him in winning his heart, but still, this man will soon realize who among those would be the only one person made just for him, it maybe from those women, or neither from them.. People do have different standards in choosing the best person where they can express love and be loved in their own way. Any one can be possibly made for you, if that person made efforts to become special for you and do things unselfishly till you have realized that his person had brought out the best in you. Now, that is what I can say, Just made for you. When things fall under your preferences. therefore, Many person are made for us and one special person made just for us.
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@Boyetski (986)
• Philippines
24 Dec 09
But how about when that ONE special person you mentioned past away. Leave or something the same. And then you met someone better. Is that other person the one for you or was it the one that leaves you?
@Genericbe (1376)
• Philippines
25 Dec 09
Thanks for accepting my post as best response in your discussion.' may this serve as enlightenment for others and an additional contribution in their life struggle. MERRY CHRISTMAS AND A PROSPEROUS NEW YEAR~~ ho ho ho!!
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@MultiGod (86)
• Indonesia
22 Dec 09
I don't think there will. People are just praying so that they could find someone to love. We have to do something if we want something. We can't just wait for miracles to happen. A dream is a dream. I once dreamed of a girl whom I liked, yeah, but in the end...I began hating her. A dream, isn't worth being reality.
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@Boyetski (986)
• Philippines
22 Dec 09
SO for you Fate has nothing to do with Love? Is it our choice? Did we choose to love that person we are with? Or it just happend and you cant explain it? When she /he asked you why do you love them? Can you clearly explain or elaborate to them the details?
• Indonesia
22 Dec 09
Ah, sorry. I don't talk fate. I don't believe them. We choose our fate and way. It's not the fate. We choose em. Love is gained through a long term of relationship(between a man and a woman) with hardships. If someone asks:"Why do you love me?" I'd answer:"Because you're my type.".
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@Boyetski (986)
• Philippines
23 Dec 09
I will have to agree on choosing our fate. What ever happens to us tomorrow is because of what we did today.
• United States
22 Dec 09
I don't think there is ever just one person that is perfect for us. First of all no one can be perfect so therefore I don't think there can be any perfect relationship. You can probably have a successful relationship with many people, but it all depends on how both of you handle the situation. Also if there was only one person I was meant to be with do you know how hard it would be to match everyone up? Just doesn't seem like a pleasant situation to be in.
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@EARLZHAN (934)
• Philippines
23 Dec 09
Well I don't think if there is really one person distined to be with us.But I hope there is and I hope that my Girl Friend is the one who is really distined for me. However, I don't expect much with the relationship that I have now but I want to give my best for her. If God's will and if we really meant for each other well I 'll be very happy for that, But if we're not I'll try to accept it maybe God has a better plan for us.
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@Boyetski (986)
• Philippines
23 Dec 09
We can only say that the one he have is the one perfectly suited to us. We cant stand it without them right?