Have you ever felt the real, truly love?

December 22, 2009 6:20am CST
I ask you this question, because I am interested to it, are you really fallen in love with the person you are now, or you just think you love him. Because I have many friends, who told me, that many time they didn't felt the love with their girl/boyfriends, but they felt good with them and that's why they stayed together. So how about you? have you felt it?
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9 responses
• India
22 Dec 09
Hi, Yes, I have Fallen in love with a person. It very difficult to define how i felt. After falling in love. It is very different feeling i had. With God Grace We Are Happily Married For Past 18years. I am Glad I met HIM [b][/b]
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22 Dec 09
Glad to hear that. I also know many people, who lived already 10-20 years together as a married pair and they look really happy! So i'm also happy to know that you feel happy with the man you love and that you love him really!
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@Ravenladyj (22904)
• United States
22 Dec 09
and there is nothing wrongn with that! I lvoe my husband very much BUT I'm not IN love with him..I'm actually still very much in love with my soulmate (someone else) HOWEVER my husband and I are the best of friends, we've been together for 11 yrs and just celebrated our 7 yr wedding anniversary yesterday....
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22 Dec 09
Well, cograts, then! But do you feel better with your soulmate or with your husband?
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@maxilimian (3099)
• Indonesia
22 Dec 09
I'm daring to say that true love is really exist, but sometimes people are not aware about it, until they loose who they have been with from their lives
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22 Dec 09
You are so right, maximilian! We have something we don't esteem, and in the moment when we lose it, we realize that we lose that thing that makes us happy and the man we have really loved. ANd as many people say, if you really love someone and he/she loves you too, let him/her go and if he/she come back, it means he/she really loves you and be with you till the end of days!
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@KompitaPita (2051)
• Bulgaria
22 Dec 09
Hi Nautilus and congrats for this good discussion! Just think about it: What is better? Fell in love with someone, but being unhappy/this is is possible - if you are are in love with someone but he/she is not the perfect person for you/ or being with somebody whit whom you are feel great, even if you are not in love , I mean if this person is not your big love. You know what my mom said? She said: Better with someone who is loving you, then with someone who you love very much. I hope you understand me... Having boyfriend/girlfriend and feeling OK with him/her is not that easy. Human relationships are so complicated. But now I think it's will be good idea if I answer to your question. Yes I have felt the real and true love, but I am not with that person at this moment... how you can guess - we broke up after we experience our romance... :)))
• Bulgaria
22 Dec 09
Yeah - I am looking and hope to find the right person. Thank you.
22 Dec 09
So I wish you to find him and happy holidays!
22 Dec 09
Well, I understand you. It's good that you have met you real love, but it sad that you broke up! But don't fall into, as people say "Tomorrow is another day!" SO keep looking for the right person!
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@monkeylong (3139)
• Guangzhou, China
22 Dec 09
As far as I am concerned, I think I have ever felt the real and true love in me. For now, I am in love with my girl friend who I usually getoghter and enjoy a lot of fun . Sometimes, my friend and I will go out for some travell to the place of interests near by. I think I have a good relationship with my girl friend. I love her so much. Happy mylot.
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22 Dec 09
Well. I am happy to "hear" that at least one is in love with someone he life with!
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• India
22 Dec 09
Until now i thought its not real................ i used to laugh when my frnds tell me that they r in true love.......... bt now i am feeling what love is........... true love.....
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22 Dec 09
Well, thats very good, because many people think they have felt it, but they have not. So you must be 100% sure that you have met and felt the real and true love!
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@cobradene (1171)
• India
22 Dec 09
I have felt the true love a couple of times. But the only time I ever felt true and pure love which encompassed my whole being and made me forget time and space around me was when I was with my mentor, and also with one of my friends. This love was never physical in contact. It was purely spiritual, and nothing can compare with this love. No human love can come in front of it. True love is always eternal and has no boundaries and you cannot hold this love for yourself. You cannot possess it. That's true love. And it's very very rare when you experience such love in your life. This love doesn't happen between two lovers so easily, because there is an egoistic attachment and also there are ego pleasures involved. But true love is always spiritual and never ending, and ever growing. :-) I have experienced that, and I still keep it in my memory and connect with it and enjoy whenever I want to be filled with joy.
@cobradene (1171)
• India
23 Dec 09
I am still in touch with one of them... and she has made a big difference and still continues to make a difference in my life. And, my friend, not in touch since a long time, since she's been busy flying as an airhostess around the world. :-) Some people walk into your lives for a short time and for a purpose and then leave. So probably it had to be that way.
22 Dec 09
Wow. that's very good, because the spiritual love, is the purest and the most innocent love, that you can ever meet. So it is really very good that you have felt it and not just once, but twice. I just want to ask you, still you friend with the people you have fall in this spiritual love, or you aren't?
@bingchen (1119)
• China
23 Dec 09
i have felt the real,truly love.whatever i love or someone love me.i find that i love him and make me feel tired and always make my heart cried for him,i could not see the future between me and him.so i end up our love,but after several years,i met my husband,he love me deeply,but i dont felt the love with him.but i felt good with him.he make me happy and could not make me hurted,that is enough.
23 Dec 09
Hi! That's good, you don't love him, but at least you are happy with him and I think that's also something, because you could also be unhappy with this man!
• United States
22 Dec 09
You know, I'm really not sure if I've ever felt true love or not. I have had several long term relationships, about a year and a half long each...but to be honest I just don't know if I have been in love. I had told them I loved them because I thought that I did, but sometimes I wonder what love truly is. In my mind, I almost don't think I can truly love someone unless I'm willing to make big sacrifices for them, and I have never gotten to that point yet as I am pretty selfish with myself and my career, I must admit. So I don't really know. I hope to one day find it!
22 Dec 09
that's good, but I think a half or an year is not so long relationship with a person you think you love. Because I am from 4 years with my girlfriend and I still can say if I love her truly, I mean I know I love her, but as I watch at movies or read in some books, the people there love each other at one quite different way, they look so happy, and I have never felt so. That's why I'm a little bit confused, because I want to feel such a thing, but I still haven't!