Marrying someone who's disabled

Physical disability is not the matter of love or life. Many people who is disabled but still very famous, I can name Andrea Bocelli - the singer as an example. As I already said, disability is not the matter of love, so I can't say I will marry a disabled one or not. It means nothing. There's other things that are more important in love, such as Sharing, Understanding, Caring and so on

I think it's ok to marry someone who is physical disabilities.Maybe the capple try their best to support their family together,the only thing needed is true love...

other than physical disabilities, there even has that physical differences like a tall one and a midget getting married, a girl marrying conjoined twins and more of those unexplainable relationship which turned to be a very inspiring love stories for all of us. love really moves in mysterious way.

I know of a friend who married a guy who is completely paralyzed from the hips down. I really think that it was love cause until now they are still together. I do not think that its was out of pity, I do think that it was real love. Well in my case, I really cannot tell. Perhaps it would have been difficult if it was me on her shoe. Still, I think that love thus conquer all!

I don't see anything wrong with it. If you love someone for who they are then why should it matter? It shouldn't be all about looks or anything it should be what matters most to them. love is love and as long as you're happy, you should do whatever you want! Shouldn't matter to the parents. Some point yea but if they don't except it then that's their loss. As long as the couple is happy!

Personally I don't think it would ever happen for me, though never say never! But I do know someone who blind and he married a woman who was deaf. I think it was romantic. They completed each other. They have children who can hear and see just fine. I would never judge someone who married someone with disabilities.

I can't see anything wrong with it, love is love and I think other people should stay out of trying to rule another persons life.. we all have our own journey to travel and we should be allowed to make our own decisions on what road to take without interferance from others...

For me what she did is such a noble thing to do. Just hope that she married him solely because of love and not out of pity. Because only love can maintain the marriage as pity might just recede. But if you look at the situation in general, normally blind people married to another married partner and all because they normally met at their association, club etc. Being a handicapped couple would just make the thing a bit difficult. If only a normal person would married them, thing won't be that bad isn't it. Also for any other disabilities.

Hi careguarden, I think marriage is for companionship. Providing for spouse is an ancillary objective. I agree women have natural functions such as bearing child, and therefore, they do lose on some progress in their careers. Moreover, physical safety of women is also an issue. Because of these two factors, responsibilities have increased for men. But personally, what is wrong with such a relationship? As long as they both understand each other perfectly, I dont see anything wrong with it. This person you are referring to would definitely have weighed the pros and cons before taking such a step. Not everybody with money is happy you know. :)

There's totally nothing wrong with that. I salute the girl so much. Despite disapproval of most people around her, she still choose to be with the one she loves..It's true love indeed and it's nice that she knew what was right and what should be done.

I think for those people who got married with physical disabilities goes with the saying LOVE CONQUERS ALL. A person who fell in love with a partner with physical disabilities is rare seen in a relationship. The normal person really proven his love for the person. I believe that when a person is in true love. He is totally in acceptance of the personal being. Though it is hard for them, criticisms always be open for them,or even discrimination. It is their right being a person to love someone in accordance to their choice. I believe that people involved in this kind of relationship has big emotional attachment and for them true love is the best thing they can offer. I do not see myself marrying someone with that disabilities. But, since no one can hold one's future. I cannot tell it surely of the possibilities to happen.

Well to be honest, marrying someone who is physically disabled is really very difficult. It's hard to raise a family where only you are the one working for it to grow. But, there is no such rule that prohibits people to love those who are incapable of doing normal activities. If you do love some one, you should accept that person for who he/she is. But again, before you enter in that kind of situation, make sure that you are ready to face all the responsibilities so that you won't have any regrets in the future. Physically disabled people also deserve to be loved by others.

I salute her for having the courage to stand with her decisions and stuck to it. I hope it's all about love why she married the blind guy.not out of pity or after for the money. I went to korea before and I have known so many girls there who's married to a guy with physical incapacity, some are lame, blind, deft others are too old for them, and the only reason i found out is all about money.they married the guy for the sake of money, and for them to stay in korea legally. and the worst thing is...they have their bf who's waiting for them in their country.,and know nothing about their situation in korea. everything seems to be wrong, they live pretending that they love their husband but all they really want is to take the breath out of their husband, so that they can freely live their own, with money and citizenship, in that way they can petition their bf and live in korea. But i know God won't allow such selfish thoughts of them. good luck to your friend careguarden:)

I careguarden, I will help the disabled person but not to that extent of marrying them, because I want my life partner to be involved in all my day-to-day activities and I want to enjoy my entire life with her (I already have got girlfriend), so I am not going to marry disabled..... I know it sounds cruel but I say 99% say the same answer.

Love is beautiful and universal. I think about it this way. Supposedly someone gets married to someone whom is not physically disabled and then later in life, they get sick and become disabled, I think it is in a form of understatement for the spouse to accept the she or he. Therefore, it's the same definitely for someone whom falls in love with someone with physical disabilities. I think about it along those lines.