r u gettin enough

United States
December 27, 2009 11:10am CST
I've been married for about 7 yrs and the lovin gets stale every now and again, do ya'll ever feel as if you may or not be enough to please your partner? It is hard to get advice from someone that lives way too close and isnt on the same page as you, so if you more than have the hang of it in this area, give myself and the rest of us a little DR. Ruth advice. Need Some Luvin, B
3 responses
• Philippines
26 Jun 10
Well, i really cannot answer that for sure. but think about this, do i contribute to this lack i need? Do i lack something that needs to be given to my husband? Is our relationship emotionally stable? Do i do my part? this is a two way street and talk about this closely with your husband.
@newtalent (1114)
• United States
14 Feb 10
First and foremost ask yourself what are you looking for or what are lacking? How can I enrich our relationship? What attracted you to this person? What has changed? What I have learned is that you have to constantly re-invent yourself or your actions. You do not do this to the point where it will be expected of you all the time. Book a cruise, a hotel (nice one), a retreat, renew your vows. That's all I can really write down. Use your imagination and of course ask him/her what she/he wants. Good Luck, take, and have fun.
• India
14 Feb 10
it is somehting you shoud be sorting out as he is your husband and you know him more than i know him.try approaching him straight and saying your trouble when the right time comes.dont scold or command him to do so or put it as a complaint instead try something romantic and say it or just make him feel what is that he is missing.try to spend more time with him and stressing on you and your husbands life .