how to keep in touch

@legend4u (1019)
India
December 28, 2009 8:55pm CST
hiii.. i have been busy lately, gone for studies... never been active in mylot... more than that failed to keep in touch with my friendz ya i send text messages,but still the life is not there... wht can i do..
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@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
29 Dec 09
I remember you! lol! Well I'm sorry you've been busy with studies but all I can suggest is trying to spend a little time in mylot a week. Maybe designated a time after all your studies and homework and then just come on mylot and type away. As for other friends, designate a weekend a month that you get together with all of them and just relax and have fun. Hope your doing well, and Happy Studying.
• China
29 Dec 09
When friends move away, it's hard to keep in touch with them. You both get busy with your separate lives and don't have the time to catch up with each other. Nonetheless, it's important to keep in touch with friends.Here are some ideas for keeping in touch with your buds. 1. Call often Simply pick up the phone and call whenever you can - it doesn't have to be a long phone call. Just a quick 5 minute call can get you caught up with your pal, and he or she will know you were thinking of them. Let her know that you want to know what's going on with her. They're probably interested to hear about what your up to, too!" 2. Write letters It's fun to get mail, and sometimes letters can be a great way to let your pal know what's going on with you. Not sure where to start? It's easy! Tell them how much you miss them, and then tell them all about what's going on in your life. Don't be afraid of being boring...if they know exactly what's up, they'll feel closer to you. Some people find it hard to write letters - it's a lot different than talking! Just write as though you're talking to your friend. Use phrases that you say a lot. Do you say "like" pretty much like, every second word? Then use that when you're writing! It's easy once you get going. Finish your letter off with smiley faces, drawings, x's and o's...whatever seems suitable." 3. Send cards Hallmark cards are easily accessible, and it's a non-time-consuming way to let your bud know your thinking about them. Pick something that you think will make them laugh, or one with heartfelt sentiments that describe your friendship. Hallmark's line of musical cards - they sing when you open them! - are sure to bring a smile. Then just sign your name, add a quick message, and send it off!" 4. Send giftsin the mail! Baking, books, magnets, bookmarks, jewelry, games, pictures and videos of you and your family and friends...anything goes! Sometimes the littlest things can show that you care the most - just inexpensive trinkets that show that you're thinking of your friend!" 5. Email or Chat Online. Make sure you both have e-mail addresses, and you're all set! Homemade letters can easily get lost on the way, get torn, or just get boring. E-mailing your pals is a great and helpful way to stay in touch with each other. Use instant messengers such as MSN or AIM to your advantage, by talking to all your pals at once! Whenever you switch on the computer, be sure to check your inbox of updates! 6. Use Skype. With Skype, you can video conference with people who live far away from you. Just get a camera for your computer!
@MJAL08 (275)
30 Dec 09
i understand what you mean but you know what texting isn't really enough to keep in touch. I know that you are busy but why don't you try calling them over the weekend. Set a time that you will without a doubt only give to your friends. It can be for an hour or so then you can continue with your texting even when you don't get a reply as long as you make them feel that you remember to greet them, the connection will always be there.. Besides there are a lot of social networking sites, you can comment on their pages or post on their wall. They'll upload photos of the things they do and you can too so that they'll know what you were up too. I hope you can regain the connection you thought was missing. Its all about flexibility and of course determination to stay in touch. If there is a will there is a way and if the person doesn't want to there are always reasons... take care!
@Bethany1202 (3431)
• United States
29 Dec 09
Email is a quick and easy and free way to show someone you are thinking about them. Just a quick hello is all that's really needed to let someone know you are thinking about them. If you get a few extra minutes, simply explain you are very busy and focusing on your studies at this time, but let them know you still appreciate their friendship and want to stay in touch. As someone else suggested, instant messenger and text messages are good, so are social networking websites like Facebook. Best wishes!
@dianmelydia (2269)
• Indonesia
29 Dec 09
I think in our modern world now, it's not a difficult thing to keep in touch with someone. When we need to leaving our family, our friends, or anyone due to job, study, or traveling, we can easily using internet to keep in touch with them. No need to use conventional mailing services, no need to use conventional photo for sharing every moment with them. Now, we can use email, mobile phone, IM, facebook, video call, and many more. By using video chat or video call, we can easily feel that the opposite is just sit in front of us. We can see them clearly. We can see them lively. So, what's your problem? I think keeping in touch with friends is not a hard thing anymore. We should be thankful because we were born in this modern world. No need to use pigeon for sending mail anymore. Thanks to our scientists. Have a nice day and happy mylotting.
• United States
29 Dec 09
The way that I like to keep in touch, is through instant messaging and social networking sites like Facebook. I think Facebook is definitely one of the best ways to stay in touch with people because you can IM them, wall them, and interact with them online. There's so much to do. Personally, I found a lot of my old elementary school buddies that I haven't seen in the longest time on Facebook. Since most everyone has one, there's a pretty good chance that your long lost friends have one too =]
• Canada
30 Dec 09
Hi Legend,What about sending an e-card telling them that they are important to you? A friend is a precious commodity - not easily replaced. Each one adds something different and special to your life. What about sending a sentence to each one, something like "I was thinking about why I like you so much...you always make me laugh and I feel better" or "you take the time to listen to me and that really helps me to solve my problems" or "you do little thoughtful things that nobody else does like...". Everyone wants to be important to someone. We think we don't have time, but when they're gone, you realize how much time you wasted doing things that didn't matter and how little time you spend doing things that do. Or here's one more suggestion, take their name and put an adjective that describes them beside it like this and send it to them in an e-mail saying this is how I feel about you: L - learning E - eager G - generous E - exciting N - nice D - dependable Hope this helps!