whom to choose?

Philippines
January 3, 2010 12:15am CST
who will you rather choose..... the person who loves you or the person you love?
10 responses
@jaya999 (23)
• India
4 Jan 10
Choose the person who loves you, make sure you give the love & caring in return or else none of the relationship work. How can you be with a person who does'nt love you. You will automatically fall with the person who loves you - if you understand the love
• Philippines
4 Jan 10
It depends on the type of love that a person has. I think I posses an unconditional love or actually believes on it. So I'll rather choose the person I love. There's a lot of people that who can love you but there's only that one you can truly love.
@hotsht2 (71)
• United States
4 Jan 10
definately the person that you love. cause if not then that means that you'll have to learn to love the other person, and that to me isnt a true meaning full relationship. thats one persons true feelings and the other isnt as into it as the other. a relationship should be two people loving eachother equally and they both want to be with eachother. if you are with the person who loves you, you are thinking about the one you love... makes sense huh? idk, love is just a complicating thing, and sometimes hard to understand. best wishes...
@syaryel (155)
• Malaysia
3 Jan 10
I'm kind of greedy on this one..so I choose both.. I honestly would not choose to be with somebody just because she loves me..to me its so----un fair, and we definitely will never achieve true happiness.. having said that, though its hard, I mean super hard...I'll chose to let her go if I were to be the only one to have feeling towards each-other... That's what I believe and always will be... :)
@jithinpg (87)
• India
3 Jan 10
Both case must be in equal proportion. because i can love anyone without second person's knowledge or agreement. If somebody loves me, its not always true i should love that person. So, the principle is that waving a single hand never makes noise. I Just prefer to love the ones who loves me., And if i love somebody who doesnt likely be loving me, i will be loving them without expecting aynthing :) -Jithin.
@kashers (649)
• Jamaica
3 Jan 10
the person that loves u and u r sure that it is love then return the love to that same person,u can also choose the person that u love but in order to give in to that person fully u have to be sure that,the person is loving u as well,but to b on the safe side go for the one,that is showing u their love for u,if u r in love with them like that for a relation, i have cases similar to yours' i am just remembering,there is this girl that loves me so much but i am not in love with her like that for a relation,i just keep it as friends,and the girl that i am in love with,at the time was talking with someone but wasn't invovled when i came along to her to let her know i was interested in her,she was also,but didn't at the time gotten rid,of the person she was talking with, its been months now since we have been seeing eachother and building a relationship,and i can now say that she is in love with me as much as i am in with her,and the other one that loves me much is still loving me although i am letting her know that we can only b friends,so in my case i went for the one i loved,so maybe u can see how to choose from my example,if the one that is loving u,u r not into the thought of a relationship like that but just friends,then just keep it that way,and if the one u love,u have made a move to let him know that u r into him like that then keep working at it until,he is into u like that,this is just my opinion, what works for me may not work for u so the choice is yours'
@BART78 (2932)
• Canada
3 Jan 10
the way i see it, it depends in you age, if you are already in late 30's i would be ideal to choose the person who loves you, but if you are still in your early age choose the person you love most..
@Baluyadav (3644)
• India
3 Jan 10
hi,it is proven in the history and it is better in my view also,it is always better to choose a person who loves us...
• Philippines
3 Jan 10
I'll choose the person who loves me.
@emarie (5451)
• United States
3 Jan 10
I would hope that they would be the same person. Honestly if the other person doesn't truly love me then I will never truly love him. It will just be an infatuation. The best love is one that is returned and that is true love.