What makes you very sad day in your life?

@fchalida (196)
Indonesia
January 3, 2010 9:38am CST
I am very closed to my mother in law more then my own mother. She always hug me and always share story and the important thing she always give me suggestion to solve problem also the opposite.She never impose her thought always open minded. But one month ago she past away in her 68 yo. I am very grief. I thing she was the best friend i have. 1. what is your very sad day in your life? please share with me 2. How to cure your heart to solve it? 3. Do you share with other if you have sad day or problem?
7 responses
@onida143 (117)
• India
4 Jan 10
they are many things which make me to feel bad like lossing money ,fighting with my gf and not talking with me for most of the time ,when my parents scold me,when my internet connection gets slow,when i wont get what i feel i need to gain,when some one misunderstands me,when my friends wont speak with me for long time & finally i get some problems in my works then i really feel very said in my life so i think these are only where i feel sad.. on
@fchalida (196)
• Indonesia
6 Jan 10
Hi onida143, hehehe if i have experience like you, i am not sad but very angry, and i will go out to the Mall get relax with other friends to hang out.
@Genericbe (1376)
• Philippines
3 Jan 10
The sad days in my life are many to mention. I also feel the same way with you regarding loosing someone close to my heart. It is hard to accept the reality especially when you miss the presence of the special person. But, life has to move one . Think positively that it happened for a reason. Cure your heart by remembering her in your heart and mind all the good thoughts you have shared. Make us of your memories as your source of strength in life. I do share my problem with someone I trusted only. I am open to any suggestions and things that may contribute to me in overcoming every obstacle in life. You should be glad and thankful to God because he gave you a kind heart mother in law to give you many realizations about life. Her good influences in you will remain for lifetime.
@fchalida (196)
• Indonesia
6 Jan 10
I just cure by always prayer to GOD, at the first time i prayer and pray i always crying and always remember her. By the time goes for one month every i prayer and pray for her to GOD, i am not crying anymore. But i always remember the teaching she has given. And i also teach and tell me children when ever they remember and miss her so much, They must to pray to GOD for her journey to go to heaven. Yes you're right Genericbe, I am very thankful because she is very kind to me, although sometimes she angry to me about something.
@cryw0lf (1302)
• United Kingdom
3 Jan 10
I suffer from depression so unfortunately if i do not take my pills then everyday is absolute hell for me. In all honesty, i was rather close to my ex's mum, whom i felt better then my biological mother... obviously i do not talk to her anymore though as it has been 11 months since the break up- I can't really relate to my new boyfriends mother, as she is highly religious where as i am not... I occasionally share my problems with my partner / best friends, but thats as far as it goes.
@fchalida (196)
• Indonesia
6 Jan 10
To cry0lf, Why you take your pills everyday? Are you sick? What's wrong with you? Why you left your secondary mum, whether she encouraging you? What happen with your biological mother?
@ebuscat (5935)
• Philippines
4 Jan 10
For me when my parents got angry and my brother to and specially if my husband got mad in me also because he's the type of the man who is easily got angry what will I do I pray to Jehovah GOD that he examine my heart and after ward's I didn't notice that I have the solution.
@myramae19 (667)
• Philippines
4 Jan 10
sorry to hear your lost., yes, losing someone dear to you is very painful...just pray for her soul,though we don't want our loved ones gone,its hard to accept the fact that we're just a passenger in this world. wow, you're different from many married woman that i know, you are more closer to your mom-in-law than to your own mom. The very sad day in my life? I think when the day we find out that my mother is at stage one cancer, its like i feel that my heart is bursting..but thanks to God she's in good health now. anyway, you have to accept that your mom-in-law is now resting in peace., time will cure fchalida. cheer up.
@ewinner (86)
• India
4 Jan 10
The sad day of my life is when my huband lost his job.I felt very bad because I wanted to give good education to my daughter, but now i think it is not possible, hence we are making alternate better plans to earn.
@krajibg (11923)
• Guwahati, India
3 Jan 10
Hi there, I agree losing some one so close is too painful but this is the way of life and we cope with the situation whatsoever. Time is the great healer and we go normal once again. When I lost mother some three years back I felt that was my saddest day.