Why people falls in love?
@PrashanthGoud (211)
India
January 5, 2010 12:59am CST
Have you ever fall in real love. Can you experienced the pain of love. Generaaly people din't that they fall in love with some one till there was a gap of meeting for few days. Which means they used to talk in their regular life. But at the time when holidays comes ( Few days to months ) suddenly they used to feel the pain of love. Then they realizes that yes i fall in love with him/her.
6 responses
@thugstyle21 (419)
• India
8 Jan 10
Love is a sweet thing to happen in life. It happened with me when i was twenty years only. I felt its pain same as of yours . love is something that never arouse suddenly we do not realize it first its when someone gets far away that we realize it that we are in love. Nobody's sure about love its only afterwards we come to know about that love.
@vandana7 (98986)
• India
10 Jan 10
Hi thugstyle as per my understanding if you are performing a very crucial operation such as detonating a bomb, even if Angelina Jolie stands without a stitch on her, your thoughts will not stray from what you are doing. :) That means the nice symmetical heart that you see on Valentine day is somewhere inside your brain, and not under the throat, enjoying the company of lungs. LOL. Same holds true for every beautiful person or intelligent person who crosses our paths. We may find a person's company very interesting for a few days. But if we discontinue it by taking up something serious in between, the person will soon be forgotten. I don't say true love doesn't exist. It does. The tests I am suggesting are essential to identify whether it is headed towards a splitsville or life long bond.
@thugstyle21 (419)
• India
10 Jan 10
Would you elaborate on point that how you are going to carry your love for long bond the way you are going???
@vandana7 (98986)
• India
5 Jan 10
First question, yes. Second question, yes. Well, Prashanth your third query - says it all. There can be no love without the involvement of brain. So you should have enough time to think about the person you love. :) Hope that answers your question.
@thugstyle21 (419)
• India
9 Jan 10
Hello vandana.
Sorry but i totally disagree with your point that love is possible only by involvement of brain.We all know love is a life of valuable enjoyments. Love happens by heart because love is without any reason.Loving somebody by involvement of brain and thinking about the person in that way is not a love in any kind.Its just a dependency that you need your lover for some reason or other.And if love happens that way then that love never lasts for ever. Love is a process of getting two souls into one forever and its only through heart.
@advokatku (4033)
• Indonesia
5 Jan 10
to fall in love, people need a process in which the love arise through the eyes, heart and reason. That's why, in general, people need time to falling in love and can quickly be devastated because of love
@fsll518 (304)
• China
5 Jan 10
Yes, the pain in love, I have got quite a lot of that...
Please view my recent discussion, a case of myself in relationship crisis. The pain is almost killing me...
At first we think love is really good and expect too much good things, so when the bad things happen, we started to be miserable.
Dude, take care, we don't hurt others, and not to get hurt by others.
Have fun.
@jithinpg (87)
• India
5 Jan 10
Hi Prashanth,
I'm in love for almost two years now and it is a very happy relationship till now. I had experienced the pain of love, when my lover is away from me or we couldnt meet for some days, but contacts through phone.
The case you are telling here is a about friendship to love relationships which often occurs in college campus. Its quite natural to have a special kind of attraction towards a friend or someone, maybe classmate and we will not realize it until we miss them for a few days without an option of any contact. This situation will lead into an inner-mind tension which brings up a tendancy to contact or see that person as soon as possible. The mind will be full of that person, and thoughts about that person.
But in most case, we will be shy to talk about our affair to the other person thinking about what he/she will think about us, or the thought will she/he loves me back or reject comes up. Some people often gives a try, and show courage to have a proposal which in most times become sucessful.
The tension or pain of love is a great feeling and its not descriptible by words. Its depth and strength depends on how much you are dependent on the other person, or how much he/she is influenced in your life.
-Jithin :)
