your housemate and her kid are nuisance, wanna move out

@Cheiyen (317)
Philippines
January 9, 2010 7:24am CST
your housemate is a single mom with a toddler. they argue day after day, most of the day, early in the morning or late at night. you can hear the choir of angels if a day goes without nagging, wailing or loud arguments. you've already done your part to give her pieces of advice on how to deal with the kid positively and establish a routine for the little girl. how would you tell your her that you're gonna be moving out after the contract has ended coz you've moved in together and she's planning to renew renting? please post your suggestions. thank you.
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@underdogy (700)
• Thailand
10 Jan 10
I didn't know what was happening there near anuban but thanks to mylot, now i know hahah...Kidding aside..This is a very tough situation. It's nice to have housemate because 1. getting insane is next to impossible, knowing that there will be someone whom you can talk to. 2. rent is going to be cheap so bank account will soar high hehe. 3. a little help from them can also be a factor if you need one (emotionally, money, whatever) However, it can also trigger a person to go insane if a. you always hear arguments day after day, especially if you are tired after the long hours of work. b. you cannot guarantee the cleanliness of your house because you're not the only one living there. c. and the last but not the least is your personal space which i know everyone wants. Sometimes we would like to be alone. Away from people because we are searching something, because we sometimes find solace only from being alone. I'm not sure if what i wrote can be of help or if it's worth the read..I just hope that your decision ,no matter what will that be will benefit the people around you and yourself as well.
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@Cheiyen (317)
• Philippines
13 Jan 10
hi. what you've stated are all true and i can't disagree. but if you hear the same old stories (which you have already memorized), you can't blame yourself if you'd be annoyed. thanks a lot.
• Thailand
13 Jan 10
That is exactly correct. Can't really blame anyone hearing the same stories over and over again, but i think it is better sometimes to stand on your ground and say exactly how you feel. Other people might take it negatively, however the chance of saying it upfront because you know you're on the side of the truth is very much important, so why be hesitant? Unless you do it...there will be no ifs, no buts and no maybes.
@Cheiyen (317)
• Philippines
13 Jan 10
wow! that's striking... really! let me put up the nerves and i'll expect the day to come. keep your fingers crossed for me please?