Virginity

United States
January 10, 2010 5:34pm CST
For both men and women. The day you lost your virginity, do you regret when and who? If so why? I was 17 and have no regrets.
7 responses
@mlhuff12 (797)
• United States
10 Jan 10
It probably wasn't till I was 19 or 20. But it was such a long time ago. Things change. I change. It doesn't really matter what I did back then. At least to me it doesn't. Besides, I rather ponder on things that happens now than back then.
• United States
10 Jan 10
True, I would rather think about now. But it is nice to reflect on our past, they were our stepping stones to today. I love to reflect on yesterday's gone by. I will always get a smile on my face when I do. And starting the day with a smile, what more can a person ask for?lol
@mlhuff12 (797)
• United States
11 Jan 10
Well I'm glad the past makes you smile. For me...not so much. Now is such a better time for me.:D
• United States
11 Jan 10
Awwww...the older and wiser lesson.lol I'm with you on that one. :p
• United States
10 Jan 10
Nah, no reason to regret it because it was exactly what I wanted to do. It happened so there was no need to regret anything at all. Sure the relationship didn't go anywhere but at the time it was a great idea. No one should never have any regrets about what they do if thats what they do.
• United States
11 Jan 10
It's part of life. You have to do what makes you feel good. It feels good so why starve yourself of such a pleasure.
• United States
11 Jan 10
You got best comment!!!! Virginity is one of our milestones...no need to regret it. So great positive attitude!!!!
@plantit1 (297)
• United States
10 Jan 10
Oh yea I remember that day. My boyfriend snuck into my bedroom only to get trapped in there because my grandma had gotten up. He had to climb through the window to get out. HaHa! I dont regret anything.
• United States
11 Jan 10
hahaah....I love those almost get caught moments. Makes the whole experience a better story later in life. Thanks for sharing.
• Philippines
11 Jan 10
Before virginity is very important to men and women but now its nothing....the women before the will treat virginity as the most wonderful gift that they could give to her husband after they get married....but now 15 year old do you think they are still virgin?
• United States
11 Jan 10
I was 15, only a month away from 16. I lost my virginity to my current boyfriend that I've been with for over three years. He was visiting for the week from his home state, and during the middle of the week I told him I was ready. He continuously asked me if I was sure, until I finally just said "If you ask me that one more time, I'll just do it myself!" It was fast, but I don't regret it. Even if we break up, he was the first person I ever trusted enough to give something that precious to. I don't regret it, and to me it's a fond memory.
• United States
11 Jan 10
Well I hope you stay together. Those who grow up together tend to stay happy and healthy in a relationship. I wish you much luck with him. Make many more memories and smile at them all. :p
• Philippines
11 Jan 10
i havent lost mine yet. i still believe in the sanctity of marriage. that my virginity is the ultimate gift i can give to the person i will marry. i do not think ill of those who lost their virginity, it's a matter of choice.. but it's just odd if your not together with the person you loved but you shared a very unique and special bond with them through that. just a thought. but i'm proud of you for speaking about it openly.
• United States
11 Jan 10
You are correct, it is a gift you can only give once. I did marry him but we did have relations out of marriage. I was the try it before you buy it type girl. Thank you for not thinking ill of me. And hang on to that virginity...you are indeed a rare breed in today's times. Good Luck!! When you get there, I hope it is all that you wished it to be.
@jojorv (201)
• Philippines
11 Jan 10
personally, virginity is no longer an issue, the most important here is for a girl will not get pregnant (unless you are ready.