Do you trust your couple after he/she having affair?

@fchalida (196)
Indonesia
January 11, 2010 9:19am CST
If my hubby having affair with other women, i feel this world will fall down. I don't have imagine what can i do without him at beside me? but if he having affair at behind me, i will not forgive me ever. And i will take divorce from him. Do you trust your couple after having affair?
4 responses
@pengbubu (1015)
• China
13 Jan 10
For me, I will give her a chance. And she cheated me again, I will leave her.
• United States
12 Jan 10
I could never trust my girlfriend again if I found out that she was having an affair.
@arym72 (49)
• Philippines
12 Jan 10
Hey,it is so easy to say you cannot forgive him when he wanders around with another woman.Take it from me,I've been there.I once read that it is very natural for any person to commit mistakes in their marriage like an extra marital affair.Do not take me wrong...of course who would want it.But you should give him/her a chance if ever he commits that sin if you know within that he/she is so sincere in asking for forgiveness and promised to change for good.Now,if you discover again on the second time that he/she cheated,leave....I am pretty sure he/she would commit it again and again.
@joy4you (641)
• India
11 Jan 10
Trust will definitely not be the same but if it was a one time affair and the partner is truly and sincerely sorry for their actions then it might be worth giving the relationship another try. In a marriage things may not be so easy/simple.