How you survive your first fall?

January 14, 2010 4:07am CST
My breakup with my longtime boyfriend took on a longer, more painful route. He said that he wanted to be alone and give some time to think thing over, and asked for a cool off. And since I didn't get a reason nor was I given a chance to question him for this sudden pronouncement, I left with no choice but to go along with his decision. After that everything went ok but it came a big surprise that he broke up with me on our exact anniversary. It is the most painful thing that happened. I never mind that he had to do it that day. I just wished that he told it to me face to face without me being left wonder by myself. At first it really hurts. I can't eat, I don't want to talk with anyone, i don't want to move, I don't want to go outside. I just really want to cry and be alone in my bedroom. With that I can think better. After a few months i just realized that with your first love, there is the probability of a first heartbreak. And i told myself that there are a lots of men that deserves my love. How about you can you share your first heartbreak and how you survive with it?
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@jazelann (112)
• Philippines
22 Jan 10
How were you able to cope up? It's been 3 hours since he left me. And I don't know what to do. really. I just told him that he was the best thing that ever happened to my life before considering to break our relationship. I don't know how long I could hold on to this pain.
• Philippines
29 Jan 10
Ouch. The pain is fresh... 3 hours? Just move on.. Don't ask him back anymore. If he wants you he will come back to you. Let him go.
@zed_k4 (17627)
• Singapore
29 Jan 10
Love hurts, huh.. It did for me, and I remember my first love, when it ended it was so painful too. I felt like there was a certain void deep inside and my emotions were left raw and standing alone. But after sometime, I thought hard and I wanted my own happiness. I started surrounding myself with things, making myself busy and then slowly, the thoughts of my first love dissipated.
@chiyosan (30204)
• Philippines
23 Jan 10
I have been in love, or so maybe i think i was in love - with the first man who showed and showered me with attention. i think that is love lasting for 3 years until i finally gave up waiting for him to be more industrious about life. it is true that they say that we women do mature more than men. he is older than me but most certainly acts more childish than i am. the breakup was painful, and sudden. i just woke up one day and i no longer want him in my life! my 2nd bf-my feelings for him was just something that i think has not matured. we have just been together for 2 years, but we haven't met much and the feelings never grew and it was just lost. basically me not being in love as i thought... i should say we all have gone through breakups but my means of coping up would be different from you, or from others. we all have our ways. find the one you think would make you feel better and beautiful.