Are you single?
January 14, 2010 6:21am CST
Are you single? I know that being single is having a freedom and meet a lot of people but for how long you intend to be single? Don't you want to have a partner in life?
• Sri Lanka
14 Jan 10
I am single and have no idea of having a partner in life. As selfish as it sounds, I'm quite happy the way I am. I have the freedom to do whatever I want to do or don't want to do. I get up when I want or go to sleep when I want; watch whatever I like on TV or go out when I feel like it and come back when I want to. You see my dear, the freedom comes from freedom of the heart more than anything. I do not have to get scared or worried if my partner is not home when he says he will be, or wondering if he's out with someone else? Is he sick or met with an accident etc.etc. which for me is hell.
15 Jan 10
Yes that's true. That being single is having freedom. you can do whatever you wanna do, go wherever you wanna go without asking for permission. And you do not need to think where your partner is, why his not yet home and so on. But the feeling of having someone right by your side is really a good thing. Someone who will comfort you, someone you can talked to-which is very different when you are talking to your friends. For me having special someone really ease anything and inspire me in everything I do.
• United States
26 Jan 10
I plan to be single all my life. I would love to have someone in my life but I'm better off being single. Relationship take alot of work and I like to let them side. I'm also gullible and I'm scared of being taken advantage of. In some ways I don't mind being single but I still have the yearning to be with someone! I'm human!
21 Jan 10
I am single and now but I don't know for how long. Yes, I love the freedom I am having as single but things happens now and then and I know that soon enough, I need to give up my freedom because of certain issues here. I am torn between being single and settling down.
19 Jan 10
I just had a partner in my life a year ago. We broke up because of some reasons. It was really hard to move on at first because I really had love the girl and became a part of my life. Right now, I am a single guy. But I'm happy now because I have freedom and no commitments to handle. I know that there is a destined girl for me in the future and I will definitely wait for that right time. To all singles there, I want to say that based from my experiences and learnings in life, we don't have to rush love. We can't hurry it. We have to wait for the right time where we are ready in terms of age, morally, intellectually, spiritually, and financially. We must save our love for the right one.
16 Jan 10
I want to be single for as long as I can.lucky for me my heart isn't "beating",and possibly will not "beat",for someone.I would rather stay single than be in a relationship.I don't want anybody to demand for my time and attention.I don't want to have someone to ask for permission when going out.I love my independence.