My Apology

I didn't see your disussion (yet ehehe) but I think there is no need to apologise at all. Any intelligent girl, if she really is intelligent, will see the point of your topic and would not be offended The fun topics are often those which are more popular - but then how do we define 'fun'? Some get their own fun by discussing certain topics which to me are absolutely not fun at all. Everything is individual and we are all unique. There is a place for everything in the world just like there is a place for everything here on myLot just as long as it is all done with respect. Of course respect means also respecting others who might not see things exactly the same way as we do - and what a sad world it would be if we all saw things from the same perspective!

Hi bhanusb, Like you ,I too feel that most members prefer light discussions that are fun to participate in or the one's they are able to relate to. A very serious discussion needs too much of involvement which most members may not want, since they want to realax and enjoy the discussion without taxing their brains after a hard days work or during their time of leissure.I too used to start some serious discussions, but seeing the number (no) of responses, I decided to start discussions on those topics that are liked by mylotters....It is a fact that we need to face....All the best and happy mylotting

Can you post the link so that I can find that topic? I want to be the 58th to response..lolz.. .. I don't think choose is not a proper word. We don't choose our mate we fall in love to them.. And it does not matter how intelligent or how boring is that person is. As long theirs a tickle inside you..You still fall for her or for him..

I remember that I was the first one to answer your thread "Choose a less intelligent girl". At first it really angers me, oh not really. I mean it upset me the way you give reasons to your judgement. The fact is, it really doesnt matter if the man or the woman is more intelligent than the other. You know what is important? The important is both couple understand each other even if they have flaws and with imperfections as long as both are able and willing to accept and respect each other. You love because you love the person and not you love because there are conditions you want to imply. Just like you mentioned that you will choose a less inteligent girl because you can dominate her and not because you love her even if she's less intelligent than the other girls. I just remembered now a boyzone's song which goes LOVE ME FOR A REASON AND LET THE REASON BE LOVE. Well, apology accepted.

Do not apologize. That is the facts of real life and people need to pay attention, to others people's thoughts. I am not in the least offended or hurt. I may not be a lady, but i am a women who knows how a lot of people think. Congratulations on that high score. Keep it up and do not mind if you step on some tows. That will happen now and then, but we are all friends and we will get over it.

ya of course it is right that every one want's that his wife is intelligent but simple or modest then life is so beautiful that's why wife has two mean W-wonderful W-worried I-instrument I-invited F-for F-for E-ever E-ever u can think n make according your self

Hi My dear friend i'm quite sure that you know mylot well than me and you should not write about your other discussion in a new discussion..i have done this for a couple of times and got my discussions deleted and i think that you are also well aware of that rule..though on the other side i would really like to congratulate you on your highest response you have received and i think i should also see that discussion and give a comment as it looks nice.. Happy Mylotting..

Yes nothing like a topic like that to get all the ladies riled up eh? good of you to apologise haha. there are discussions of all kinds here. sometimes there are serious discussions that become very light hearted with certain responses which trigger their own mini discussions that go on and on, mostly when the responder knows the person who starts the discussion quite well.

I am pleased that you are getting some good responses to your discussions Bhanusb. There are always people that take what is said here very seriously. But do not worry too much about that. I am sure that you don't ned to apologise but it was the gentlemanly thing to do.

Hi friend, Great you have started a good discussions and got good responses for your responses.So always start with a good discussions and good responses to other discussions.So be a best discussions and best responses here. have a good day.

Hello, Bhanusb. Most of us on here have got a sense of humour, and would realise it was all very light hearted, so there's probably no need to apologise. Personally, I like the lighter, more humourous topics, although I do go to the serious ones if it's something I'm really interested in. The main thing is, you are thinking carefully about the discussions you're starting, which is great news for everyone. It doesn't really matter whether the topic is serious or light hearted, as long as it's interesting and gives us plenty of scope for responding. Keep up the good work!

your topic is nice dear just need something different in your discussions dat. what type of qualities making a complete women. you dnt define decent gurls n women. discussion r real topic on wich all get encourage to drag on just things wich u said about a women its g8 heart yours. there is always a g8 women hide inside a girrl some showing some not showing. women must need write direction t show her inner beauty nthign else. only guys make a gurl wrong or bad, dat all will agree.

no apologies needed friend...keep discussing such topics as long as they give u good responses...humor is preferred all over the world!