family problems

HI, I married 7 years and sometimes I find myself hard to get along with my husband too and the point that I didn't get along with him cuz he didn't help me and always think of himself first before me and my kids. I still love my husband and my kids... and I never want to be separate either cuz thing that I tie then I will know how to untie it. Woman is like that when she went through some kind of change and especially after her pregnancy. She just has a baby who is 2 years old and she feels so tired of being mother and such around the house and plus you as well... that's why it makes her feel uncomfortable and try to get it right just for her. If you love your wife then you should tell her and ask her what you want and what you need. Ask her what in her mind, and what make her fight and dont get along with him like this? family is always like that so, you have to face it and deal with him. Divorce is not a solution, it is just prove that you can't take care of one personal problem. I deal with a lot of hard things here and I still can move on with my husband and never step to those divorce at all... hope thing will work right for you... and if she wants you to do thing in specific then do it and you always tell her that you love her... at least she feels some love from you. Remember, you have 2 years old kid that is watching you every step and you dont want her to follow in a bad way right? think about it again.

I have too had same type of relationship for over 20 years. We are just exsisting in the same house. I would strongly recommend not letting things go on as long as i did. We do stay together for our children but it will leave you missing something in your life emotionally. I think maybe if you can open communication with your spouse and talk about your needs then maybe its possible to work on things. If your spouse thinks everything is your fault then you have to talk about why she feels like this. Marriage and any relationship is a two way street of working together.

Yeah, there will be a point in marriage where one will have this kind of problem. Most have had that idea that you think "enough is enough". But most of it can be resolved by communication, telling each one how do you fell without the shouting and angry taught. Sit down and give it a try. If it doesn't work, try the counseling.