friend and love

India
January 18, 2010 3:45am CST
well this time i am gonna discuss on the friends who wants to have the same person as their lover. can still the friendship grows? this is a very common thing that really happen with evry individual........ doesn't it?
4 responses
@cindy27 (130)
• Philippines
19 Jan 10
for me yes, because i agree that all lovers should be good friend at first. and if they are really for each other their relationship will grow. even if they will be more than just friends their friendship will always be there as well.
• China
19 Jan 10
Yes,most of the time two lovers can also be good friends if they share both of their emotions and feelings,I will give you an example,that is from my friend,she got her lover (boyfriend)five years ago from high school,we really envy her relations with her boy friend.hehe ,I can say they both friend and lover,most of the time when my friend has something unhappy or soething she doesn't want anyone else know she will tell her boyfriend,their relations is so intimate even surpass the relations between two friends ,perhaps this is the reason why their undergone so many hardships ,parents disapproval .etc... Here is a good news from her recently,after graduation they will get married .. Molly:)
@bing28 (3795)
• Philippines
19 Jan 10
It all depends,for others they found out that friendship is the best foundation of love. When you are friends you're well adjusted to each other, you realized your compatibility. There's already love existing but you don't plan this, it's just sometimes happened that friends turned lovers.
@Hubfee (665)
• Thailand
19 Jan 10
Honestly, I never tried that. I never take any of my friend to be girlfriend. The way I have a girlfriend is that I just get to know a girl and start to talk and learn how she is and court. But never think of take a friend to become girlfriend. I saw many relationship collapsed, the friendship also. So I told meself never do that. It won't end nicely.