Would you forgive a cheater?

United States
January 21, 2010 4:16pm CST
I firmly beleive that I would'nt but then again I can't say its ever happened to me. Or that I know of.
6 responses
@jose431 (164)
• India
28 Jul 10
No,never I wouldn't forgive to cheater,because once they hurts me badly.I can't do same that like before, I had got experience from him.
• India
28 Jan 10
I think its not easy to forgive a cheater,one of the main reason being feared of getting cheated again.You can somehow build some trust on the cheater but still there is something inside your heart that keeps remembering you the cheated case.Plus trust is something once lost never comes back.
• Philippines
26 Jan 10
I've been cheated before and i told myself that i will never forgive him. what he did was just too much. Two years passed and i fell in love again. I was so happy that it made me forget what happened two years ago. i met this guy again (the one who cheated on me), I stared at him and i don't feel anything at all. It seems like i haven't known him before. When he started asking how i have been, past memories flashed back... until at the present time where i found the love of my life, and i am amazed of how intense feelings could change. I don't hate him anymore. Time heals it all and someone special made me realize that what happened are blessings in disguise for me.
• United States
24 Jan 10
I would say i did not forgive and i didnt forget but i did try to work things out just for our kids benifit. I think i would call it more excepting he did this and keeping up a guard that it could happen again and that i can not trust him. We do live in the same house but i would call our marriage rocky at best. He is not the person in my life that i get my emotional needs met from now. I have an online/long distance relationship that fills those parts of my life. If i had to do it all over again, i would have left the relationship as soon as i found him cheating! Every situation is different but no i can never forgive him.
• India
22 Jan 10
Never so can i forgive a cheater as for me its about trust and more of it is the sense of the bondness between two people. No one likes to be cheated in any sense everyone feels the essence of that pain which can lead to problems in near future of so. Why should such a cowardly act be done by anyone. For me its not so possible to do and would again never see that person or call upon in my life.
@dikonoha (122)
• Indonesia
21 Jan 10
if that heppent to me I wouldn't forgive him/her, caused I don't want him/her do that thing again in future time.