Do you Argue?

@Java09 (3075)
United States
January 21, 2010 5:12pm CST
When you're having an arguement with friends or family members,do you argue back and keep it going?Or do you leave til it cools down?I like to avoid arguements but some people will continue in the arguement.I like to get away so the argueing stops.What do you usually do?
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@nissin46 (54)
• Philippines
22 Jan 10
I really do, and I love it! Most of the time, when things went wrong or there's an immediate something to decide even big decisions, I see to it that my ideas and opinions are being considered. Suppose you are part of a team, what would you feel if you're not being ask for your ideas on a particular matter or project? How about, selling a family's property without asking for your opinion? Consider this, your partner spend half of your earnings with a vacation trip with his/her family alone?? So you think you would argue?? Think about that.
• United States
23 Jan 10
Actually I wouldn't argue over any of these. I would be too busy packing and leaving. If they don't need my opinion, then they don't Really need me at all.
• United States
23 Jan 10
I don't like arguing. Before September I wouldn't just close down and leave , I wouldn't defend my view. I thought my view wasn't as important. But now If an arguement happens I'll state my point and I won't back down , and ten I walk away. So instead of holding the rage inside , I let it out.
@mhagskier (322)
• Philippines
22 Jan 10
I don't like to have any arguement with anybody especially with my family (havin arguement with family hurts more than break up). Sometimes I do fight back. Just to tell them what I felt. To tell them that they have done wrong things to especially if I am right (of course I don't give words back if I knew that I was wrong). But most of the time I don't give words back even if I am right just not to make it longer.
@icesmile (7160)
• Romania
21 Jan 10
I do not argue, unless i think it deserves.I mean if someone is important to me, and I want him to understand that was wrong. If i think that person does not deserve my attention, just ignore it and move on and wait until i ll attack him. Anyway i ll wait until I think it is time to give reply, but for sure that in one day, soon or later, i ll pay. Never argue. If i am guilty for something , I try to explain, if i am are innocent, just ignore and wait. will come my moment too.