being mean...

mean, evil - is it ok to be mean yet consciencious?
@nimette (338)
Philippines
January 21, 2010 10:06pm CST
i used to have a saintly image. lol. maybe i just know how to please people or just plain charming. lol. but recently i think im becoming mean. i find it hard to hold back sarcastic comments. and when im pissed i'll tell you straight in the face. controlling my temper has been a challenge these days. bye-bye miss goody-two-shoes. i guess i'm just being more real these days..hmmm but i'm still aware that that isn't an excuse to hurt people's feelings. whew! thank God i still have conscience..
2 responses
• Philippines
29 Jan 10
hey were being the same...:)...me too im becoming meaner and meaner..and that's so sad for me..i mean i can't hold back those sarcastic comments and these days i feel like i want to fight someone..but i know that is bad...i feel bad for myself and those people whom i tell sarcastic things...i mean if i see what's the truth i tell it to them straight to the face without even thinking...i really don't want anybody to get mad at me...:(
@Fulltank (2882)
• Philippines
22 Jan 10
The good thing is that you've been able to assess yourself by comparing your previous and current attitude towards people. Many of us doesn't have the time (or do not want to do it) to assess ourselves. Its because many of us does not know how to do it and let others tells us what they think our attitude before and now. Me too is guilty of this one as a let others (my wife) to assess me of what are the things or attitudes that changes. I hope I can do it they way you did in times to come.