what are some of your breakup stories?

I started dating my High School sweetheart again after a four year span of not seeing or talking to each other. We met again at a party and ended up talking for a few weeks before anything became official. He accepted that I have a daughter and that I was going through a divorce, so everything seemed perfect, especially when we got to the "I love you" stage. Well, he had feelings for my best friend, and at a party one night he told me that he didn't really love me, he was just saying it to make me happy because I'd been going through a lot the months before that. I was devastated. I was living with him at the time, with nowhere else to go, and had to endure knowing he was talking to my best friend, and even thinking about hooking up with her. Things have gone a lot differently since then, but I still feel hurt about it.

I only had 1 boyfriend in my entire life and I believe we both broke up for a lame reason. We were classmates and we have been in a relationship for about a year.. in our second year in college we have not been classmates so we broke up due to "lack of time"... just thinking about it is purely nonsense!!! if he really loved me, time should not be an issue. However, what we have shared has been so meaningful and believe it or not despite having separate lives for almost five years already, he still holds a special place in my heart :) We haven't been friends since the broke up and I haven't heard anything from him (except, of course if my friends tell me updates about him) but you see I don't regret things.. things happen for a reason... that break-up paved way for our maturity-- in studies, in career and personal life and also in handling relationships.. though it's just sad that we both have to break up just so for us to mature, still I thank God that I've learned many things from him.. :) well.. life's just like that.. i still believe God will give me the right person :)

Well, I was in a relationship with my ex-boyfriend for just two months. We were university schoolmates. And when we were together, he's always telling me that I should be like this or like that. But I didn't care about too much at that time because he's the Virgo and it's its most outstanding character. During the spring vacation, on my birthday, he even said Happy Birthday to me and I was very angry. And then he sent me a message saying that he thought not care about me that much. And I said then we should break out. And he said ok. I felt like being cheated. But later he asked me to go back to him. I refused. I don't believe that he really loves me. Now we are friends all the time. He calls me when anything he wants me to do, including ask to accompany with him to play games. I feel like that I just a substitute product. I cannot know what he's thinking about and he never tells. Should I ask him directly?

Me and my girlfriend (at the time) were happy and supposedly in love with one another. I soon realized after discussing our future together that i wanted to move into a house with her and settle down etc. but she didn't respond to the things i was saying and ended up keeping quiet until she started crying. I said 'whats wrong?', 'I've been seeing this other guy' she said 'What do you mean' i said. basically I was attending university to study a course which was an hour away from where she lived. whilst i had been away at university she had become friendly with this other guy and was needing attention from someone. She soon left me to be with this other guy. the day we split up was horrible for me, very emotional and my heart was broken. She still cared for me but had fallen out of love with me. I soon realized the other guy had money, a good job, a house of his own etc. She chose not to speak to me and literally shut me out of her life and we haven't spoken now for three years. I learnt she became pregnant and had his child and she's getting on well in life. I've moved on with my life but still would have liked to have her as a friend at least. We were together for 3 years in total. I think she feels guilty for dumping me for someone else and thats why she chose not to speak to me anymore.