If you ex-boyfriend/girlfriend said "I still love with you"?

United States
January 22, 2010 11:47pm CST
hi:)))) I have a question,I broke up with my ex-bf 5 month ago that because I felt very tried in that time,It was very hardly in the beaginng,but I thought it's time to move on,So I must to focused on my work, and I like travel,yoga in that month of the beganing..I forgot him gradually.But now,he found me and told me the feeling that he still loving with me..I was crying when he said. I dont know how to do? Maybe I love him too,but its wrong...
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@raynejasper (2322)
• Philippines
23 Jan 10
..hi.. if you still love him, why do you refuse? However, it would really be nice if you two will talk heart to heart and clarify the things that caused your break up.. maybe, there are reasons to be clarified first before you decide whether to give him another chance or no more.. sometimes and most of the time, the saying which says, "if you love someone, set him free, if he comes back, then he is yours forever" is true.. give yourself sometime to think very carefully and weigh things.. if you feel you love him but because of circumstances, you also feel that he doesn't deserve your love, then you better tell him to find another one so that both of you can move on.. after all, you've been hurt and it doesn't heal easily.. just weigh things carefully my dear..
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• Indonesia
23 Jan 10
Good advice raynejasper, I totally agree with you.
• United States
23 Jan 10
U are right~`thank you so much~
• China
23 Jan 10
hi friend in my opinion,you should figure up your mind,ask yourself:do you still love him?none more clearly than you,in additionally thought what are the reasons lead to the way you guys broken up at the previous time,you must take it serious if you wanna to be together with him,or elae is likely to bring another broken up,anyway,I believe you can make it up,good bless for you
• United States
23 Jan 10
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@nanayangel (7879)
• Philippines
23 Jan 10
Hi there Cameo! Well, it isn't clear to me why it's wrong so I will just rely on the fact that you said it is. The thing is if it's wrong, it means that you're better off without him and would someday find someone who deserves you and would love you much better than he did.
@PeacefulWmn9 (10420)
• United States
24 Jan 10
Hello Cameo One of the most important things you can do with this is listen to what your instincts tell you. Look back and picture exactly how things were when you were together, and ask yourself why you broke up with him. Do those reasons still exist? And how did you feel in those five months when you were apart? Did it do for you what you wanted it to? If you were enjoying life and doing fine and not thinking of him, then you must ask yourself: do I love him? Do I want to be with him again? Or have things been better since I left him? Search deep, and go with what your instincts tell you. You will find your answers there, inside of you. Karen
@lyuesong (72)
• China
23 Jan 10
I think you may make clear somthing about you ,for example: how did you begin with your love? why did you end your relation? IF you get together again,can you be lenient in something that made you unhappy? And of course,do you really love him now ? and why him come again?and so on.Know the fact, konw how to deal with. wish you happy everyday!