how do you cope up after a recent break up or divorce??
@abhiabhiabhiabhi (531)
India
January 23, 2010 12:22am CST
hey people this discussion is somehow related to my previous discussion which says "should you keep contact with your ex??"
now think that you had a break up today or may be yesterday...it was a good relationship and everything was fine and suddenly some problem arises and you break up or maybe split.
i know as the time will pass everything will be fine and you will be able to get along with your life but how will you cope up to the situation at that very moment or for the first few days after your break up or split??
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4 responses
@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
23 Jan 10
I am quite a strongminded person, and i have a strong will as well, but i have to tell you, if for whatever reason, my hubby should ever leave me, i am sure i wiil definately not cope with it. Yes i agree, life goes on and you will eventually get over it. But i don,t think i will. He is my whole life and very precious to me.
@abhiabhiabhiabhi (531)
• India
23 Jan 10
if you love your husband that much then why are you breaking up???you share a striong bond with your partner and if you two stay together it will heelp you and your kids too and you will also be happy
@brymel25 (285)
• Philippines
25 Jan 10
when one has to go through a break up, i think that it is really important to have a good support system such as your family and friends...boyfriends man come and go but ur family will always be there for you. just accept the fact that things wouldn't always be the way you wanted them to be.Face the reality and start moving on.=)
@cute125 (101)
• Australia
23 Jan 10
I dont think you will ever get over it - if its someone you love. I dont know what Im doing and I constantly think about the person I love even though they do not love me. Its a very hard thing knowing you have found the person you love but they dont care about you or love you. Its very hard. A the moment i cry everyday. perhaps sometime down the track i will feel different.
@Godmother (476)
• Indonesia
23 Jan 10
I got rid of everything that reminds me of him ! I do some major things like redecorate my room, or sign up in a new gym, just anything so I won't have time to think or feel. I avoid being alone, and totally avoid love-movies and sad songs. If the break up was not bitter, it's a lot easier. But if it;s bitter then we need time to heal.
