does your husband help you at home?

home job - for discussion
South Korea
January 24, 2010 5:53am CST
well,some of my friends told me that i was very lucky because my husband help me at home,and i was proud of it.since i get married my husband always help me at home job, whenever he doesnt go to work, he do the cleaning at home, he also cook,put our clothes to washing machine,look after our daughter and he even go to groceries to shop...how about you does you husband help you at homejob? or do you men help your wives/mother at home? pls, share
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@williamjisir (22909)
• China
24 Jan 10
Hello marketing friend. I do the same thing to my wife. Often when I am having my long summer and winter vacations, I go to the grocery market to buy food alone, and sometimes with my wife. I love to mop the floor twice a day and such. I think that doing household chores is every family member's business. But I appreciate my wife doing the most part of it as I am busier with my work. Take care, friend.
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• South Korea
24 Jan 10
its good that man also must do some household choir..thanks
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@thejuice (237)
• Indonesia
25 Jan 10
well.., I have great husband too.., he always help for my tasks at home, if I washed clothes he will ironed the clothes, and if I cooked he helped me for clean the house. I'm very lucky to have him...;-)
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• South Korea
25 Jan 10
wow..that good
@sminut13 (1786)
• Singapore
25 Jan 10
i guess i'm considered lucky too as my husband does help out at home sometimes when he's free, or if he feels like it usually unlike others' husbands who do nothing at home. but the disadvantage is that he is more a clean freak than me. thus, when he finds dirt and all, i get all the lecture. that sucks, but even more so when he repeats it again and again sigh people say 'oh you're so lucky your hubby helps out' but truthfully, we have to be even more alert and make sure that the house is to their liking. that can fray our nerves a little at times.
• South Korea
19 Mar 10
hahaha..my husband is also the same as your he is more cleaner than me..
@sminut13 (1786)
• Singapore
24 Mar 10
one thing i came to understand is that if your spouse is the type who has to stay really clean, cleaner than you anyway, you're going to have a hard time keeping up with his/her expectations. this is what i learned personally and also, many others whom i know agreed from their own experiences as well. hehe
• Canada
19 Mar 10
my husband helps out, he does the dishes and laundry and cooks most of the time because i work and he's not working right now
• South Korea
19 Mar 10
thats good that he helps you..
@SomeCowgirl (32273)
• United States
19 Mar 10
My husband does help me around the house a lot but he also likes to be done for. I spoiled him and so has his mother. He balances our checkbook and is now the only one working so I let him off as I am here all day so It's not like I've worked real hard or anything. We have routines at night, usually he'll make the bed and I will deal with the dishes and drink.
• South Korea
19 Mar 10
that was good
• United States
25 Jan 10
My husband has always been helpful at home. We work together at our business and share household chores. He usually does the shopping for groceries, keeps the cars maintained and washed, sometimes he does the laundry, takes a turn at cooking meals especially breakfast, and on and on. We both mow the lawn depending who's got more time, and he's been known to run the sweeper and clean the bathroom too. He's the perfect man in my book!
• South Korea
19 Mar 10
wow..you are very lucky...
@gabs8513 (48803)
• United Kingdom
25 Jan 10
My Ex Husband did nothing even though I was working full time, had 2 Children to care for which I loved every minute of and had a House to keep, my Ex Husbands life was going out and enjoying his Life as he used to say Also he used to say, I work all Day, so why should I do stuff here, hmmmmm..... strange I worked all Day to sometimes 12 hours in the Day... guess it was one rule for him and one for me So yes you are very lucky that your Husband is like that they are very rare, appreciate him for it, as I have had Friends whose Husbands where like yours and they took it for granted Your Husband realizes even though you do not work, it is still hard being a Mum and keeping House, so he gives you a rest, not many Husbands see that, they think it is an easy Life for the Wife to be at Home, look after the little ones and keeping house and we know it is not
• South Korea
19 Mar 10
yes..some husband doesnt like to help their wife..even when they are thristy they still want their wife get a glass of water for them..thats not fair
@youless (87456)
• Guangzhou, China
25 Jan 10
It is great that you married to such a good husband. I am glad that my husband also helps me to do some housework. I think it is important and fair for a couple to share their housework. It is wrong and irresponsible for one person to do it alone. When our child was little, my husband bathed for him much more. He also changed the diapers for our baby. And he did a lot of work like that for me and I am lucky. I love China
• South Korea
19 Mar 10
hi..your are lucky to have a good husband too
@Hazelrose (2186)
• Philippines
25 Jan 10
Hi there,Yeah,my husband were helping me in my household chores but not often.It's just if he is not busy in his appointments in his work.Every time when he is in the house,he always helped me specially in washing our clothes and cooking our foods.Have a nice day!
• South Korea
25 Jan 10
wow..thats good..thanks
@p3ks626 (6552)
• Philippines
25 Jan 10
I think we are both very lucky to have our husbands who help us with the household chores. Aside from what you have mentioned, he also cleans the toilet for me. I appreciate all the effort he's doing just to help me at home. I know he is really tired sometimes but he always does the laundry. I also like the idea about him and me going to the grocery store together because I think it is a very good for me and him to work around our budget since he knows prices of the goods that we need at home. He also offers to do the dishes for me after a meal. I am happy with my husband, not just because he does these things for me but he has a special way of showing his love and that is through service.
• South Korea
25 Jan 10
yes, youre right i think this is the special way how our husband loves us..
@larish (2196)
• Philippines
25 Jan 10
I am as lucky as you, my husband also help me in the household chores. He clean the house even the bathroom. He bring our clothes to the laundry shop, he do minor repair at home. The only thing he can't do is to cook but it is fine because I can always manage the cooking thing. We are both blessed for a good husband.
• South Korea
25 Jan 10
i think having a husband like them makes us so special..
• Canada
24 Jan 10
Because of physical challenges, there is a lot of stuff that i can not do that he does. As for managing the finances, I am better at doing that than he is, so that's what I do. We each have our things at home that we are better at, and so the answer would have to be "yes, we help eachother at home."
• South Korea
25 Jan 10
wow,,its nice that both of you are helping each other too..takecare
@ersmommy1 (12605)
• United States
30 Mar 10
Yes he does. And I am very thankful . There are so many things to do, I am glad of the help. Some days even with help, it's hard to get it all done!
@engrdng06 (248)
• Japan
26 Mar 10
Well I might belong to the persons telling you, you are indeed so lucky! my man doesn't get involve in any work at home. I do everything.The good thing is that I still don't have a child right now to make me super busy. Congrats for having such a helpful husband.