Have you ask a guy for a date first?

@emediloy (701)
Indonesia
January 24, 2010 10:11am CST
Maybe i'm just a conservative woman in this modern world. i never and would never ask a guy for a date. i prefer to wait him ask me first. Do you feel the same as me? or have you ever ask a guy for a date first? how do you feel when decided to do that? is he accept or refuse?
5 responses
rmuxagirl
@rmuxagirl (7548)
• United States
25 Jan 10
I am traditional in the sense that I agree that guy should do the asking, but there was a guy that I was really interested in. We spent weeks, months chatting and flirting. Mutual friends told me he would never ask a girl out and waited for her to ask. So I asked him out.
emediloy
@emediloy (701)
• Indonesia
25 Jan 10
wow,and how the result?did he said yes???
brew2x
@brew2x (3094)
• Philippines
24 Jan 10
I'm like you, I haven't ask a guy for a date. I think part of me is afraid of rejection and embarrassment just in case he refuse. I can show some sign that I would like to go out with him but I don't think I could ever try to ask directly.
emediloy
@emediloy (701)
• Indonesia
24 Jan 10
yes you're right.i can't imagine how embarrase me if i rejected by a guy lol.
MimiRemo
@MimiRemo (418)
• Philippines
24 Jan 10
I have never done that. It's a tad bit awkward and aggressive for me to ask a guy out. I just make some efforts to be friends and wait, because I believe it is a man's skill so I leave that to their department.
emediloy
@emediloy (701)
• Indonesia
24 Jan 10
yes i agree with you.i'm not so aggressive to do that too.thanx for the response,happy mylotting!
faimei
@faimei (127)
• Philippines
27 Jan 10
Hi there. We have the same view. I would never ever ask a guy out on a date. And it has never ever crossed my mind until now. hehehe. LOL. I still think that guys must make the first move.
brymel25
@brymel25 (285)
• Philippines
25 Jan 10
no i haven't. i don't have the guts.lol.=)