do you have any unfriendly freinds? How do you deal with them?

Guangzhou, China
January 26, 2010 9:18pm CST
Hi my freinds.Do you have any unfreindly friends around you? How do you usually deal with them about the relationship with them? Do you think it is easy to have a good solution to solve it? As far as I am concerned, I have some unfriendly friends around me .I was so annoyed by this situation. They usually come to me now and then. I do not like them .How can deal with them? Do you have any good method which will not harm them and me?Thank you so much.
1 response
• United States
27 Jan 10
No. If I meet a new friend or I have a friend for a year or so that we're not real close and then I hear them knocking people because they have some kinds of problems that are beyond there control and tell others just to have little to do with that person, I no long stay in contact with that person. I don't care for that type of behavior. I had another friend for a few months and when I got to know her better, I learned she would spread rumors about people. We started to church together and she knew some of the people from the past and every time we left church, she talked bad about someone's past. I told her they are in church and trying to live right and God has forgiven them. But she insisted on this type of behavior. I eventually purposely drifted away from her.
• Guangzhou, China
28 Jan 10
Thank you so much for your opinons, I think I may just like what you have said to treat my freinds who are not so friendly. I may keep a little long distance with them.happy you can live ahappy life.