Hard to TRUST men?

I will never trust a man again if you trust them they will just hurt you well that's my understanding of it all. I have been hurt by many many men. I give up on all of them! But I couldn't say all men are perverts nowadays.

there are still guys who are trustworthy, i believe. :)

No no No. Not like that, Not all men are like that. There is really a faithful man in this earth. Im not saying this because I am a man, but in behalf of MEN especially to those who are really sincere and faithful to their love.

I find you too judgmental by speaking in a general sense. Maybe you are once hurt by a man, after a love or lust, whatever happened between you both. I understand you if that is the case, maybe your still in a period of adjustment. However, if your claim is just based on your opinion, I beg to disagree. There are still trusted loving men around, not to mention yours truly LOL.. It is not good to implant hatred in ones heart just because of a sad bitter experience in an isolated relationship. There are really some, who just seek for lust not only for men, but even women now a days, its a sad fact. Anyway, they are lesser in number I assure you compared to the good guys around. Don't close your eyes, it is better to taste the bitterness of love, than not to taste at all its sweetness, for life.

Well, that is your presumption. There are still trustworthy men out there and I believe I have one. I think you have prematurely closed your doors. You just have to be a little more open-minded and be willing to take time to really know someone so you would have an idea if that guy can truly be trusted or not. Good luck.

yea you should not trust anyone before knowing him very well. you are right many men are after lust. I am a men so i know what men want. Even guys should not trust in women they too are after lust.

I agree with you. It's really hard to trust men, and it's even hard to tell if they have pure intentions or they want something else. I met a man before and he turned out into such a jerk. However, I knew 2 men so far, someone I have talked and the other one I befriended, and I can see their good intentions. Though sometimes I doubt but, even you yourself maybe can realize it once you heard their story and witness their actions. The guy was talking a lot about the girl from the moment they met and he told me almost every detail of their story. lol. I got bored in some certain minutes but I was really amazed when I listened to his story. The other guy however, his gf broke up with him, too bad he is still in love with her, and he told me when I asked if he is still in love with my friend? He said, "If I speak with my tongue and say that I don't anymore, then my actions testify and already betrayed me. It's very unusual to find meet men like them. I say, don't lose hope fella girls, you'll all find the right guys as wlel as mine. ;)