How many son or daughter do you to have?

@emine08 (1531)
Indonesia
January 27, 2010 6:49pm CST
Before I get married, I was wondering that I have a lot of chidren. why? because I will not feel lonely if I have a lot of children. But now, after I got married and had 2 children, my mind set change. I said to my husband, 2 is enough. how about you my friends?
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• Canada
4 Mar 10
There are 4 kids in my house three girls and one boy including me I'm the only son in my house
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@emine08 (1531)
• Indonesia
4 Mar 10
yup your parents have 4 kids. how about you, how many children do you want to have nickgradio?
• United Arab Emirates
3 Mar 10
I would say that it will be nice to have four, that is two son and two daughters so that they have a companion for each other. But is all depends if we are lucky to have it in that manner. I believe that God's plans are not our plans.
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@emine08 (1531)
• Indonesia
3 Mar 10
it will be nice. yup you are absolutely right about God's plan.
@cintoy (1014)
• Indonesia
1 Feb 10
You sure change your mindset. Yup Children are cute (in a way) that you will want to have as many as you can.. but when you know and learn to raise them. That's the challenge. But still, when you are able to raise them into a fine men or women, you will feel that you are very satisfied and every single thing you did in the past are paid off...^^
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@emine08 (1531)
• Indonesia
1 Feb 10
yup it is a big challenge to raise children.
• Philippines
28 Jan 10
im married for 8 years now...i had one son right now..we are planning to have a baby againmaybe next year..we are hoping for a girl this time..
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@emine08 (1531)
• Indonesia
28 Jan 10
I hope your second baby is daughter. Happy married my friend....^_^
@junrapmian (2170)
• Philippines
9 Apr 10
I have 4 kids, 2 boys and 2 girls. They are all grown-ups. Yes, I admit it was hard raising these kids because my husband and I doesn't earn so much in the beginning of our marriage but we were able to rear them properly and send them to better school.
@emine08 (1531)
• Indonesia
9 Apr 10
yup, we have an obligation to full fill all our kids needed. thanks for sharing here. have a nice day.
@ANTIQUELADY (36489)
• United States
19 Mar 10
Good morning, Two is probably enough as hard as it is to raise them to get them the things u want them to have. I have 2 grown sons, raised them by myself & it was hard at times but wouldn't take a million for them. Wish i had been able to have more but it just wasn't meant to be. Enjoy them, they will be grown before u know it.Have a great weekend.
@emine08 (1531)
• Indonesia
9 Apr 10
good morning antiquelady. yes i agree with you, they will be grown before i know it. thanks for sharing here. and have a great day too.
@no2no3 (1)
• China
16 Mar 10
1 is enough. All of my love, for my kid.
@emine08 (1531)
• Indonesia
17 Mar 10
yup, it is ok to have only one child.
@Jotomy (6343)
• India
12 Mar 10
Yeah, i too before marriage i used to think that i should have 4 to 5 children but coming to practical it become difficult and it is different too. To raise up children become more challenge. So i thought to have only 2 now.
@emine08 (1531)
• Indonesia
17 Mar 10
small family happy family.
• India
9 Mar 10
Hiiiiii friend, When you got married you realise the practicle problems of to have lot of children so your mind set changed after marriage. To think and to have are two different things. So what you thought is correct. I have also two children. Small family, happy family.
@emine08 (1531)
• Indonesia
10 Mar 10
yup, two is enough. happy family with small family.